Is it racist to have a preference in race? Like which one you're more often attracted to? Feel like most people would say it is racist but feel like everyone has these preferences they just want to seem like a better person so they deny it. I've been attracted to someone of every race but more ofte
I don't know. You tell me if it's racist. Like, the only parties involved are you and the objects of your obsession.
I know some people don't like being racially objectified, but that's their insecure, hypocritical hang up.
I'm objectified for my red hair/beard all the time. Especially by black girls. It doesn't make me feel less important as a man or a person. I'm confident in who I am. I'm me. I do my own shit.
I recommend striving to be that way too.
As far as your attraction preference goes, why would any compulsion be wrong? You can't change it. As long as it isn't unethical--non-consensual--enjoy what you dig, man.
And, any time you feel 'bad' about wanting to bone a girl/dude of a race, try to remember that there's at least a thousand girls/dudes of that same race with a compulsion towards whatever your skin color/ethnicity is.
I know some people don't like being racially objectified, but that's their insecure, hypocritical hang up.
I'm objectified for my red hair/beard all the time. Especially by black girls. It doesn't make me feel less important as a man or a person. I'm confident in who I am. I'm me. I do my own shit.
I recommend striving to be that way too.
As far as your attraction preference goes, why would any compulsion be wrong? You can't change it. As long as it isn't unethical--non-consensual--enjoy what you dig, man.
And, any time you feel 'bad' about wanting to bone a girl/dude of a race, try to remember that there's at least a thousand girls/dudes of that same race with a compulsion towards whatever your skin color/ethnicity is.