Recently i had an encounter with someone who was about to lose hope on something good they were doing.. i kept advising them and encouraging them to keep going and to be patient and not to lose hope.. but then i remembered i was in a similar situation not so long ago with the same person except i was on the other end but i had my self esteem destroyed by them, they stood against me at every point, discouraging me at every step of the way, so i started thinking.. why was i the one to give them hope when they’ve given me nothing but misery? Why did i encourage them when they never did the same to me? Why do i always have to take the first step to be good and the bigger person when they’re the one who is supposed to be wiser since they’re like 12 years older.. what exactly is this? I’m not complaining about doing good.. i just want to know why am i the only one that seems to be trying?

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