Hi! :) Buat kalian, what kind of advice from your parents that you will never forget? And can you describe about your parents and share your story about your relationship with your parents? :)
Well, my parents not the type of parents that will hold a bonding time then talk heart to heart with their kids. But they kept tellin me this 'as cliche as it may sounds, there's no way you can fight this world alone. as you can see, our family are extraordinary, either in a good or a bad ways. but whatever, they are the reason we still can stand strong and we are the reason they got what they have today. no matter how complicated our family become, no matter how mad we become, just don't you ever point your gun at your own family.' well still seek the real meaning behind it, but it's clearer nowadays.
my parents are stubborn, funny but not really, and we are so not used with the thing called love and are so awkward. not they didn't love us, it just, we don't go to each other telling 'i love you mom, dad.' or 'i miss you'. but we're happy and comfortable around each other. i always told them about my day, or when i don't like something. i tried to be open and still learn how to be caring to my own family, how to say 'i love you' without shivered.
we really are good, i hate them sometimes, i go mad, then act like nothing happened, sometimes i loved them too much it hurts. sometimes we go buddy-buddy and talk about life, or music, or people. sometimes i tell them something like 'ma, de naksir cowok. ganteng deh, dompetnya tebel kayaknya.' or 'pa, bete banget masa. anak jaman sekarang seneng banget temen makan temen' and one time i tell them 'de mimpi nikah umur 23, masa. calon suaminya ganteng sih, tapi de masih muda, terus de gak pingin nikah, tapi dia ganteng, terus de bangun.' then we laugh like we just talked about the weather or the annoying neighbor.
that just how we roll. my parents may not be the best parents in the world. they can't give me the most expensive car in the world. but the gave me the most expensive experience that i still try to understand. it's okay, cuz that's life. sometimes bad, sometimes good. i doubt my parents love, but well, what can i say? we're human, and we are good.
my parents are stubborn, funny but not really, and we are so not used with the thing called love and are so awkward. not they didn't love us, it just, we don't go to each other telling 'i love you mom, dad.' or 'i miss you'. but we're happy and comfortable around each other. i always told them about my day, or when i don't like something. i tried to be open and still learn how to be caring to my own family, how to say 'i love you' without shivered.
we really are good, i hate them sometimes, i go mad, then act like nothing happened, sometimes i loved them too much it hurts. sometimes we go buddy-buddy and talk about life, or music, or people. sometimes i tell them something like 'ma, de naksir cowok. ganteng deh, dompetnya tebel kayaknya.' or 'pa, bete banget masa. anak jaman sekarang seneng banget temen makan temen' and one time i tell them 'de mimpi nikah umur 23, masa. calon suaminya ganteng sih, tapi de masih muda, terus de gak pingin nikah, tapi dia ganteng, terus de bangun.' then we laugh like we just talked about the weather or the annoying neighbor.
that just how we roll. my parents may not be the best parents in the world. they can't give me the most expensive car in the world. but the gave me the most expensive experience that i still try to understand. it's okay, cuz that's life. sometimes bad, sometimes good. i doubt my parents love, but well, what can i say? we're human, and we are good.
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