Lili Fai

I know one of my friends are suicidal. Please don't ask You don't know what it means to be dead. You've heard a lot of theories and ideas, but they all came from living people who also don't know what it means to be dead. You can guess, but you'll never know what you're stepping. Actually choosing to go on living can be a bit of a rush. When it's a firm decision - "I choose to live!" - it can give a sense of purpose or meaning to life, just from the idea that you chose it. It seems like you're in control. The feeling fades, but it's nice for a bit.You'll put your friends and family through grief. Even acquaintances will get a sinking feeling. Dying is usually sad, but suicide really spreads a lot of misery. There's not much you can do to nullify that...your actions will speak louder than your words. There might be an important purpose to your life that you don't know yet. It may seem like a long shot, but who knows? Something could turn up.There isn't a great way to do it. Unless you've suppressed your self-preservation instincts quite well, you're likely going to cause yourself grief, pain, hassle...and there's the chance that your method will fail, causing all sorts of complications. If your life is going badly, why add more bad stuff ? Your choice will be misinterpreted. If you're trying to get a message to somebody, you'll likely be better off sticking around to make sure they get it.Suicide is final.Once you take your life, that’s it. You have only one life. End it - and you’re done. You will never, ever get a second chance. That special person.The one who keeps you strong when nobody else does. The one who stands by you when everyone walks out. Imagine the pain, the sadness, the grief they would feel when you’re gone. Even if you don’t think you have a special person worth living for, you do. You just don’t know it yet.
Killing yourself will NOT be a relief to the suffering. When you’re dead, you’re nothing. You no longer exist. If you want relief from your suffering, you have to choose to live. You have to reach out and find the courage to make tomorrow better than today. Remember, there is light at the end of the tunnel. There is hope and things will get better. You’re a strong person for living and you give me hope.It will get better, I promise. All the memories, the laughs, the smiles and the hugs.What if you end up being the one that finds the cure for cancer? Or the one that discovers life on Mars? Or the one that ends up with the most amazing spouse and family? How will you ever know your true potential if you’re not there to experience it. All the people you will never meet, all the lives you won’t touch, all the souls you won’t inspire. The future is a mystery; don’t you want to discover its secrets? Sunrise. Imagine never seeing bright yellow rays light up the dark sky again. Never feeling the warmth of the sun, never feeling the beauty of way the sky illuminates as it grows brighter and brighter until the whole heavenly expanse i

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