well idk if you are asking about girls or just people in general but yeah I'll just list it (though for the record i assume Turn ON as (+) and turn off as (-)

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TURN ON:
1) being yourself. literally. i find it "urgh" when people be who they ain't. i don't hate them but like i feel a bit sad (except for those fuckboys literally a "bleargh")

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2) kind and caring
3) quirky and fun
4) can mess around back and keep the ball rolling
5) buy for me food HAHAHA jk
6) can practically chill
7) good listener and also can open up and trusting me (it works 2 ways)

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TURN DOWN
1) not accepting a compliment

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ladies really, if we say you look good, DON'T and i mean DON'T like reject it. Some of us legit mean it. this is actually for those who be like "oh i'm not pretty" blah blah blah. have some confidence! :) I mean IMO, if i like i say i like, if not i'll just say it doesn't suit you la HAHA. and don't ask us if we find you fat, because
a) we might find it but we legit don't care. at least for me i care who you are and not your figure etc
b) you aint fat and you are thinking too much

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oh and DON'T ASK for colour differences. Guys can only notice the 7 colours in the rainbow mainly. we would not recognise the difference between orange and "pumpkin" from afar

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2) pinpointing fault and only that. seriously if you can open your mouth that big, i suggest you also state HOW to fix it. Especially when people make mistakes when they legit clueless/no one told them anything

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3) backstabbing and talk behind the back

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4) bragging and everything. i mean sure if you win it i'm happy for you but DON'T keep rubbing on peoples' faces.

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5) not keeping up promises. Really i find this totally frustrating because you can't keep your word (depends on situation) but really if you can't keep a promise, don't make one,

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