Who are they to judge you on your flaws? Live your life as you deem fit, and let they who judge not affect your values and beliefs. Change for yourself, for your family and for the ones who love and care for you, for they are the ones who won't judge, and will support you.
T-T I should take your advice.. Sigh thank you for believing in me!! :) And dont be so fierce haha i was shocked when you use the bad word ytd but too tired to react XD XD