Are you into "meet-up"? i just read in mtc that you would like to meet some of the members there, would it not be awkward for you to meet these people, not to mention, that you have already disclosed your "sex life here", they might get a wrong impression of you. Just my hunch :-)
As much as I am flattered with the people claiming to want to meet me, I really will meet with a few ones and those that have become friends of mine. We all (and that includes you) have our own sex closets of idiosyncrasies so I am not scared of them judging me. To be honest, I don't really care because it's not what I (or the people I love) think