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kenapa ya gw cm bisa sayang ke 1 orang aja, dan gak bisa ada cadangan kek orang2 gtu?

Ya kalo sayang ke 1 orang....
Punya cadangan itu berarti belum 100% sayang Dan Masih ada keraguan

Apakah salah marahin, bentak2 ponakan umur 1 tahun smpe nangis kejer? Bocahny sering mukul2 gt. Ortuny gk prnh negur. Jdnya aku sendiri yg sering marahin ponakan. Biar takut, gk diulangi gtuu. Nah, ini pas puncaknya, kepalaku dipukul smpe pusing. Aku reflek bentak. Dia lgsg nangis pas dibawa ibunya.

Salah :( please stop - yang kamu lakuin bisa punya long term effect ke si anak. Yes, I know it's frustrating - but there are ways to stop a child from hitting you!
1. Ask - kenapa mukul? Kalo dia too young to answer - perhatiin triggernya apa? Avoid it
2. Ajak main - maybe lari larian, main sepeda - or even pillow fight! Kasih liat bisa "pukul-pukulan" tanpa harus menyakiti
3. Distract - bisa with toys (mainan yang dia suka banget) - bisa with words & action (aye no hitting - just tickles, trus tickle attack)
Turn it into something positive and never ever ever yell at a child.

Apa pendapatmu tentang berteman dengan mantan ?

It's great. Tapi ga selalu harus. Tergantung masing masing orang. Kalau aku pribadi - my ex help me grow so so much jadi I'm never gonna like cut him out of my life. But to others, their ex might just remind them of past trauma so 🤷🏻‍♀️ depends

Kenapa yah punya cowo cuek cape banget, gapernah so sweet ngasih kejutan pas pdkr doang. Ldr cuma sejam gapernah minta ngajak ketemu. Kalo ketemu selalu gw dulu yg ngajak. Dan selalu terlintas dipikiran gw buat putus sama dia, tapi gw mikir lagi udah mau 2 tahun anjrit sama2 udah saling kenal ortu

Tell him! Communication is key!
Have a heart to heart - he probably has his reasons too

Whenever those suicidal thoughts appear, tell me what I should do?

Keep a folder of pics that make you happy - of people you love and those who love you
Make a playlist of songs that make you dance! Play it
Talk to someone to distract yourself - if you don't have anyone you can always talk to me :)

Apa yang biasanya kamu bilang ke org2 terdekat kamu supaya mereka bisa tersenyum? 🙄

anajmunisa27
I usually compliment them - entah hairstyle, baju, or just say they look extra good that day

Gue disuruh jgn cuek sama mas pacar, cuek dlm artian gimana siii? Tolong jelasin hiks

Jeles jeles dikit gitchuuu
Manja manja

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