Apakah salah marahin, bentak2 ponakan umur 1 tahun smpe nangis kejer? Bocahny sering mukul2 gt. Ortuny gk prnh negur. Jdnya aku sendiri yg sering marahin ponakan. Biar takut, gk diulangi gtuu. Nah, ini pas puncaknya, kepalaku dipukul smpe pusing. Aku reflek bentak. Dia lgsg nangis pas dibawa ibunya.
Salah :( please stop - yang kamu lakuin bisa punya long term effect ke si anak. Yes, I know it's frustrating - but there are ways to stop a child from hitting you!1. Ask - kenapa mukul? Kalo dia too young to answer - perhatiin triggernya apa? Avoid it 2. Ajak main - maybe lari larian, main sepeda - or even pillow fight! Kasih liat bisa "pukul-pukulan" tanpa harus menyakiti 3. Distract - bisa with toys (mainan yang dia suka banget) - bisa with words & action (aye no hitting - just tickles, trus tickle attack) Turn it into something positive and never ever ever yell at a child.
It's great. Tapi ga selalu harus. Tergantung masing masing orang. Kalau aku pribadi - my ex help me grow so so much jadi I'm never gonna like cut him out of my life. But to others, their ex might just remind them of past trauma so 🤷🏻♀️ depends
Halo 🙃 Kalau kamu belum melupakan perpisahan masa lalu, bisakah kamu memulai hubungan baru?
Yes. Perpisahan ga perlu dilupakan kok. It's an experience.
Kenapa yah punya cowo cuek cape banget, gapernah so sweet ngasih kejutan pas pdkr doang. Ldr cuma sejam gapernah minta ngajak ketemu. Kalo ketemu selalu gw dulu yg ngajak. Dan selalu terlintas dipikiran gw buat putus sama dia, tapi gw mikir lagi udah mau 2 tahun anjrit sama2 udah saling kenal ortu
Tell him! Communication is key! Have a heart to heart - he probably has his reasons too
Whenever those suicidal thoughts appear, tell me what I should do?
Keep a folder of pics that make you happy - of people you love and those who love you Make a playlist of songs that make you dance! Play it Talk to someone to distract yourself - if you don't have anyone you can always talk to me :)
Apa yang biasanya kamu bilang ke org2 terdekat kamu supaya mereka bisa tersenyum? 🙄