How do you get over someone? I've been trying for a year but I always seem to end up crying again. Any suggestions?
First of all, make sure you don't bottle up your feelings. So for example, if you need to cry hysterically, make sure you cry hysterically. If you don't let these feelings go, it will only make things worse later on. Next, don't toture yourself about it. Don't always think to yourself 'why did it end?' or 'why do I need to get over him/her?' You have to say to yourself, and make sure you believe it that- It IS over, and you have to look forward to the future. Cut it out.. so for now, don't make ANY communication with him:
-no phone
-no facebook
-no excuses
remove all reminders of them away from you, and don't think of the past with that person. This will make you miss them more. Last of all, it takes time. Strong feelings don't go over night, just try and take your mind off them, and spend more time with friends/family. Good luck x x
-no phone
-no facebook
-no excuses
remove all reminders of them away from you, and don't think of the past with that person. This will make you miss them more. Last of all, it takes time. Strong feelings don't go over night, just try and take your mind off them, and spend more time with friends/family. Good luck x x