I look to see what type of personality she has, if its not a personality I'd want to see in my life, then I wont date her, her personality has to be genuine,sweet,caring,faithful,honest,and trust worthy. She has to be able to make me smile and we have to be able to talk about our problems. One of the difficulties I had with an ex girlfriend was we got into an argument that leaded into a fist fight..But for looks,I like girls who are bisexual or lesbian, I don't care how they dress or look, its all about the personality.