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How do I make it in the music / arts industry? Teach me!!!

1. Define what "make it" means; make sure being happy is part of it.
2. Study. Not just the theoretical part, the X's and O's. Study successful artists - what makes them tick, what makes them hungry, what their day is like. Study your favourite song - what makes it good, what makes it special, what's the formula of a good song and why a formula is sometimes redundant. Study the industry - who are the movers and shakers? What can I offer it? How can I give it something that only I can?
3. Practice. Everyday. Even when you don't feel like it. The best athletes are the ones who hit the gym an hour before everyone and stay an hour after.
4. Be a songwriting beast. Don't write 3 songs and try to make them amazing. Write 100 songs. Write till your mind empties out, then go into the world and harvest more wonder and then write again. Only then will you find the golden tunes. The world doesn't have to hear all 100 anyway. Same goes for any other medium.
5. Make mistakes. Make as many as you can. Be a mistake machine. Learn from each one.
6. Kill your pride.
7. Be a do-er, more than a talker. Let the Facebookians talk and get the likes, for their satisfaction only lies in that domain. Go create art - that's the highest form of satisfaction.
8. Love your peers - they are NOT competition. The scene is too small for your petty fights. Support them even if they don't support you. If they grow, it means the scene grows, it means you grow. We're all on the same team.
9. Know your rights - know how much you should be quoting, whether or not a booking agent or client is being unfair to you, or whether you're being unfair. Don't be afraid to ask. Some people are still ignorant about artists rights - we need to set a precedent by educating them.
10. Nin-Jiom Pei Pa Koa
11. Serve. Serving is an honour. Don't serve your ego - Serve the music, serve the song, serve the people around you that make the show work, serve the sound engineer or the follow-spot guy or the wardrobe assistant, serve the art.
Making art is such a privilege. It's the coolest job ever - you get to change lives, unite people, mend relationships, bring people to their feet or to tears, tell stories that spawn their own little universe where people can find comfort and solace in. That's a high honour, and a high responsibility. Friggin cherish it.

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What should i do if i feel like giving up i'm constantly finding more sadness for myself and i'm just really fucking tired

I getcha. Life in this lane can get pretty tiresome. I'm also reckoning it's sadness from a bunch of things like family / friends / school? Imma give you a weird piece of advice and challenge you to do one harder thing - forgive. And don't tell anyone about it. Forgive the ones who make you sad, and don't brag about that forgiveness to anyone. Find a reason to love them and make them happy. I know it sounds real metta and shit, but trust me it works. Even if you have to force that forgiveness. The feeling you get after that (and the moment they see that change in you), is indescribable.

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What goes thru your mind when writing a song?

1. Ok, gotta write a song.
2. Let's make it classic with a modern twist.
3. But not too pop.
4. We need a guitar.
5. This is easy, I've done this before.
6. Em, C, G, D.
7. God that is so cheesy. We need a weird chord.
8. Bdim7.
9. K that was shit. Snarky Puppy ah?
10. God why is this so hard.
11. Why do pizzas come in square boxes?
12. SPOTIFY. Need inspiration.
13. TURNT UP playlist. Let's go.
14. Wait - BOHEMIAN RHAPSODY.
15. Is this the real life...
16. Is this just fanta sea...
17. Imagine a sea of fanta. That'd only be plausible in an explosion at the Fanta refinery, or brewery.
18. Where do they make fanta?
18. K CONCENTRATE
19. Lyrics lyrics lyrics.
20. "The day you left me; I've never been the same"
21. That's great. If you're S Club 7.
22. We need to go deeper.
23. "You broke a piece of me; that I can't find"
24. Drop a noun. That shit is hot these days.
25. Wrecking ball, skyscraper, telephone, Flashlight...
26. "You broke a piece of me; like a Toblerone"
27. *BEAT DROP* "like to, to, to, like a to-to-Toblerone"
28. LOLOLOLOLOL
29. Wonder what the first humans did with their umbilical chords.
30. Mama... Just killed a man...
31. Dammit Freddy I want your facial hair.
32. Why is it called a mustache and not a mouthbrow?
33. I mustache you a question. But I'm shaving it for later.
34. "You broke a piece of me; like a Toblerone"
35. "Now I'm all broken up, like a Gentle Bone"
36. PUT THIS SHIT ON A RECORD
37. GALILEO... galileo...
38. Wonder what the first human felt when he discovered singing?
39. It must've been rock.
40. Or maybe played his umbilical chord.
41. ROFLMAOZEDONG
42. Okay GET YO SHIT TOGETHA BROTHA.
43. Inspiration, flow, c'mon.....
44. Oh hey, Facebook.

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Hi Ben :) I'm 16 and from IJTP and I have to tell you that you're one of the best people I've ever came across in Singapore. I just watched your TEDxYouth speech and I started crying. You are so inspiring and you're the first person I actually consider an inspiration and a role model. You rock!!!

This means a heck a lot to me :) thank you. Much love to IJTP!

How long did it took for you to discover your passion? Or are you still in the midst of finding it whilst doing what you are doing now?

It took me 4 years of life to discover I loved music / performing. Sometimes you gotta go with what makes most sense to you. Other times you just need to go out there and live; your passion will find you. You don't have to look that hard ;) The hard work comes after that.

hi Ben!! well, I've been doing really really terribly in my studies and i feel that I can't do anything right :( I've been studying extremely hard but the results aren't showing and I'm really lost right now :(

Take heart that your worth doesn't rest on a number on a page, and that you're so much more than that. All that anyone, including yourself, can ask for is that you try your hardest, and THAT should be the benchmark you set yourself - for school, for work, for friends, for love, for life.
I did so amazingly terrible in school; was only ever really good in 3 subjects - English, Literature, Biology (cause I memorized the crap out of it). But I knew I wasn't stupid. I had worth, even if I couldn't write out Binomial Theorems or Chinese Essays. And I knew that life already had decent plans for me that didn't quite involve these things :)

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