Chanelle Te Amo

We'll I could give you advise but like every other girl I know you won't take it because it'll sound to challenging going without talking to the person you love for a few days, but i don't really know it's been a while since I've been in a relationship and nothing much has changed on my opinion from when I first learned my lesson on what to do and what not. But I think it's hard and also very challenging to try heal the hurt built up inside when your left in the dark from the person that you love, and we beat ourselves up over it and we question what we did wrong as to why we were left when everything seemed fine before hand and idk but we cry and we cry more and more even though we know it isn't going to change anything we still do it and then we'll look in the mirror and cry even harder and you just get so angry and upset and nobody understands and you feel like you want to try and be happy and we put up happy posts over the internet so we look fine to the rest of the world but on the inside it's actually killing us that everyone is so oblivious to what's really going on, family doesn't understand and as much as your friends try to occupy your mind during the day time you still come to the realisation your going to spend the night alone in bed with your mind free to explore all sorts of things which is when the night becomes a drag and the mind ticks over and your mind becomes so weak you begin to crumble into everything you tried not to be and I think what makes things harder is realising how easy it was for them to leave you, it makes you wonder, and the hardest thing to realise is that somebody else is open to having all that you did and will be treated the way you were and it hurts, and all of the things they told you become less personal because someone else is bound to hearing them too and it's a really difficult time and I know it and a lot of other females know it too. You have to try your hardest not to become this overly obsessive female willing to change yourself to make things better or to try and benefit the relationship because in reality if the love was real you wouldn't need to change anything in order to make that happen. Give it a couple days don't chase be chased, usually when they realise there is no female out there that is able to offer what you did they come back, it's important to stay strong and stand your ground but I know you won't because females don't listen when it comes to that, as long as no one else haves what they do right😏👎 but you learn a lot. And in saying all of this, sometimes it's a good thing, time does pass and time is one of the greatest healers of all, it makes you stronger and makes you realise you don't need anyone to depend on wether you be happy or not, the future is yours and what you make of it, and in the time of you becoming successful somebody will come and prove to you why the person before hand never deserved the love you are worthy of x

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