exactly!! I kinda get upset and I've asked these kind of people and they're like 'well since they're here I might as well come right? I mean xx member is really cute I'm only here for him don't worry' and I'm like?? I'm worrying tho???
I guess they can spend their money however they want, but it's more enjoyable if you ??? know??? the group ? ???!??!?!?!?!?!?!