Pengen berjuang buat dia tapi masih banyak hal selain cinta yg mesti dilakukan lagian dianya juga b aja ke saya ?
Nobody’s forcing you to keep trying. If you think she’s not worthy of any of your sacrifices, if you dont really meant to fight for her. Then dont.
And here’s more to my thought. For love (to me) is about, purity, sincerity, and for the sake of Allah subhanahuwata’ala, I dont really think that you love her. If you think the purpose of loving someone is to be loved back then its too shallow for you to claim it as love. For love is pure at heart and sincere in action, it wont ask for return. But again, who am i to judge right? He he.
Then second, i dont think that you have tried enough. For hard work betrays none.
Also when you involved Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala through your journey, you know no hard work is a waste. For Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala is the All Knowing (Al-Aleem) yet the Utterly Just (Al Adl),
“what’s meant for you will never misses you, and what misses you was never meant for you.” - Imam Ash-Shafi’i
Lastly, be grateful though your love wasnt reciprocated. To love someone is a privilege, the prove that your heart possesses the capacity to feel tenderness of such magnitude. You should consider yourself lucky, blessed, and honored??? (quoted from tom robbin: tibetan peach pie)
Again, it was just my thought☺️.
(Judge me for being naive, but whatever?)
And here’s more to my thought. For love (to me) is about, purity, sincerity, and for the sake of Allah subhanahuwata’ala, I dont really think that you love her. If you think the purpose of loving someone is to be loved back then its too shallow for you to claim it as love. For love is pure at heart and sincere in action, it wont ask for return. But again, who am i to judge right? He he.
Then second, i dont think that you have tried enough. For hard work betrays none.
Also when you involved Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala through your journey, you know no hard work is a waste. For Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala is the All Knowing (Al-Aleem) yet the Utterly Just (Al Adl),
“what’s meant for you will never misses you, and what misses you was never meant for you.” - Imam Ash-Shafi’i
Lastly, be grateful though your love wasnt reciprocated. To love someone is a privilege, the prove that your heart possesses the capacity to feel tenderness of such magnitude. You should consider yourself lucky, blessed, and honored??? (quoted from tom robbin: tibetan peach pie)
Again, it was just my thought☺️.
(Judge me for being naive, but whatever?)