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Do you love yourself?

Yes. Oh how i want to say yes.
Because, well, when i Iook in the mirror i no longer have the urge to cry.
Because sometimes - most of the time, when i have negative thoughts i can counteract them.
I want to say yes. I really do.
But then i remember last Friday, when i wasn't so kind to myself. I remember the things i said, how i was so cruel.
I want to say yes.
But I remember the fact that I still have this thought in the back of mind that I will never be intelligent enough to achieve everything I want to achieve, that I will never fulfill my purpose in life, that I will never be enough of this or too much of that. I remember and then I feel a little sick.
If you ask me for a black & white answer if i love myself, i would say yes. Because i do love myself a whole lot more then I did three months ago.
The truth is yes, sure, i love myself. But that doesn't mean I always like the way I am. And yes, okay, i love myself. But that doesn't mean I always treat myself right.
And yes, yes, yes of course i love myself but sometimes we do destructive things in the name of love and sometimes we don't treat our loved ones well and sometimes we hurt them because we are only human so here's the certain part of this whole reply : I am only human, I am only human.

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How do I love myself?

Stop letting fear control you. Stop letting the fear of rejection isolate you. Embrace your mistakes, your past. Forgive yourself for the things you regret. Be brave, be kind. Be so kind it hurts, & smile at everyone. Not a fake smile though, a genuine smile. Laugh a little things, or don't. Do whatever the hell you want. Stop forcing yourself to confirm that all you want to do is let yourself go. Let go. Find people who you click with, vibes say a lot. Work on yourself, you won't be perfect but that's why life is worth living. Laugh at yourself when you fall over, learn how to be alone without being lonely. Progress will come, you'll see. that's probably a deeper answer than you expected.

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