Iâm not going to give you some bullshit answer like âwell go get a girlfriendâ because it is not that easy nor simple. You want the right girl, not just any girl, correct? Iâm a single dude as well and Iâve found that in order to meet the right type of girl, you must first be/become the right type of guy. That doesnât mean you need copious amounts of cash, high status or even be in tremendously good shape (although that can help initially), but it does mean you have to be in a place to receive without expectation. You must find your happiness, alone, before you are ready to meet someone who you can share that happiness with. Having a need to be with someone just shows that one may not be ready to fall in love, because to be truly in love, you must have âa full cupâ so to speak. You want a girlfriend? Work on yourself. Iâm not just saying go to the gym 3 times a week and youâll meet someone, but truly do the inner work you need to do to be happy with yourself by yourself. If you have some trauma to resolve, go to therapy. If youâre out of shape, start working out regularly. If youâre desperate, find out what it is your so desperately trying to find that you feel you need a girlfriend to fill that void. Trust that the right one will notice this work youâve done and you will inevitably attract someone. Hope this helped.
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