yeah i didnt know it was abuse till REALLY later... he not only broke my heart, but he really broke me.. i felt like a big weight lifted off after i ended it and it was so.... great. i wish i could go back and tell him off BIG TIME. but thank you! i am staying strong! I have a new guy and hes just everything i can ask for. someone who cares and UGHHH I CANNOT STRESS ENOUGH HOW HES JUST PERF TO ME. im happy to have gone thru all the bullshit with the other one as long as it meant to meet my mr.perfect rn. ^___^