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If someone says their feelings changed you need to move on.
But the good news is that there might be a chance for you two in the long term. Just not now- you need to respect your own needs and this is not helping you for now either- this calling and begging her.

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But she needs space. Stop calling her. Tell her that she was right about the negativity and tell her you feel the same. Be strong- step out of the situation/ step out of the wound for a second and answer this question:
Look at the two of you from the outside- was there negativity? Was there times where you both did not communicate well?
If the answer is yes then you need to RESPECT YOURSELF enough to walk away for now and deal with why you reacted the way you did and said the things you said.
You need to spend time with your friends even go to see a professional counsellor and learn that the only way anyone will want to be with you is when you respect and love yourself first.
If you were unhappy in the times when it was bad then you need to have strength to say: Yes I was unhappy I need time alone too. If we are meant to be and I think we are, then we will be together again.
But before you get together again, you both need to work on each of yourselves first and then ask her out again!
But for now just take a few steps back...Maybe call her one last time before taking time out, and apologise and say that you dont want to get back together for now either because she was right. It was bad at times and you need to put some changes in place. Tell her that you too do not like negativity and lack of communication in a relationship that caused this conflict. Tell her if she does not want grief about it at the moment neither do you, then tell her you respect that and are going to work on yourself too.
Finish by saying that you hope that maybe one day your paths may cross again because she was your first love and you believe in both of you as a couple
Stay strong- remember- all love is hard at times. You need to look at yourself as a child that you need to protect- dont beg anymore love yourself and all good things will come to you from that.
I hope this helps- P.S Dont take my advice word for word here this is my opinion on what you should do Im not telling you to do it! It is up to you on whether or not you wish to be inspired.
Peace and love to you.

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