Kak Kinan, need advice dr seseorg yg open minded kyk kakak. Jadi long story short, menurut kakak, kalo pacar kakak masturbasi mikirin cewe selain kakak gimana?? :(
Kalo aku pribadi sih aku marah, apalagi kalo cewenya spesifik kayak temen sekelas, temen main, dll dan bukan sekedar porn star.
Because for me, when you're in a relationship (and you both aren't asexual) you're not only romantically attracted to your partner, you are supposed to sexually attracted too since you both are gonna have sexual thing eventually. Makanya gue bete banget kalo ada orang yang bilang "kalo cowok beneran sayang sama ceweknya mah nggak bakal tega jadiin cewenya jadi bahan colian" ya terus gimana dong entar pas mau ewa ewi masa cowoknya ngomong "maaf aku nggak bisa ngewe kamu, aku nggak tega soalnya aku sayang sama kamu." terus bubar nggak jadi ewa ewi.
So basically the function of having significant other is to satisfy you romantically and sexually. And what if he's being satisfied by someone else beside you? I would consider that as cheating unless you both have made some kind of agreement due of sexual preferences.
Because for me, when you're in a relationship (and you both aren't asexual) you're not only romantically attracted to your partner, you are supposed to sexually attracted too since you both are gonna have sexual thing eventually. Makanya gue bete banget kalo ada orang yang bilang "kalo cowok beneran sayang sama ceweknya mah nggak bakal tega jadiin cewenya jadi bahan colian" ya terus gimana dong entar pas mau ewa ewi masa cowoknya ngomong "maaf aku nggak bisa ngewe kamu, aku nggak tega soalnya aku sayang sama kamu." terus bubar nggak jadi ewa ewi.
So basically the function of having significant other is to satisfy you romantically and sexually. And what if he's being satisfied by someone else beside you? I would consider that as cheating unless you both have made some kind of agreement due of sexual preferences.
