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I have been talking to a girl for a while, as friends, we got closer and i asked her out, she said no because her friend likes me, but I've sort of messed it all up, any advice?

Sorry that I haven't been on this for a while but I am here now to answer-Try to just act like you did when you didn't have any romantic feelings for her. It is very hard for you after being so close then getting rejected but you have to try to keep the friendship alive or you may lose her as a friend. Talk to her about still wanting to be friends and I am sure she will understand x
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Ima girl and me and my gf are in a long distance relationship at first it was fine but now we are arguing about the stupidest things and we're kinda drifting apart. I'm in love with her and I want this to work. What do I do?

Sorry that I haven't been on this for a while but I am here now to answer-Try to just relax more and take every bit of pressure off yourself. As it is a long distant relationship, every little thing will be much more difficult so you have to ask yourself, do I want this? Do I need this? It sounds like you do want this so try to meet up with your girlfriend face to face as much as possible, and make efforts on the littler things. Send lovely texts, send her little gifts, facetime her. But you have to keep the romance alive for the relationship to work, so try not to put yourself down the denial road if it does get to that. Ask yourself if this relationship makes you happy and if it does, then I give you all the best!

Yea it was aha, no worries your soooooooooooooo nice and helpful x

Sorry that I haven't been on this for a while but I am here now to answer- Thank you so much, I am so glad that I could help x

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please can you post your personal page on her?

Sorry that I haven't been on this for a while but I am here now to answer- I am not too sure that is a good idea since I want to keep everything separate at least for the time being!

at a party, i was talking to one of my friends, and it was rumored that we had kissed, but we hadnt, but another friend talked to her and told me she wanted to kiss me but was too nervous, so we spent half the night about to do it but in the end she couldnt, and i felt led on, am i overreacting?

Sorry that I haven't been on this for a while but I am here now to answer- When you are quite young, nerves and emotions take over your body so when the time comes for someone to do what they want to do- they can't! I am sure that it wasn't personal that she backed out and it was perhaps just her thinking that you both want a perfect first kiss together and if it goes wrong then it could be the end of the whole thing! Talk to her about it face to face, privately and without any pressure on the both of you from other people. Try to get the both of you to relax more and not to put any pressure on yourselves. Try to just have fun and when the moment feels right, it will happen!

I feel really weird and panicky because me and my friend have drifted and so I sent her a message explaining how I feel, she hasn't answered yet since its quite long, please help me

I would advise you to instead of mailing her to talk to her face to face as it will be very hard for her not to answer. If she still doesn't tell you and ignores you then you shouldn't put up with her if she makes you feel like this! Talk to other friends to see if they know anything about the situation x

how do I talk to the guy I like more?

Just start off as friends and progress by little bits each day. Soon enough he will fully know you and maybe even want to continue to take the friendship further.

I like this person we met like 1 month ago and im getting so attached to him but hes messing me about abit and i cant leave him i like him too much if you get me?

Does he make you happy? Because that is the most important question. It seems like he does sometimes but not others, you shouldn't put up with this. Talk to him about what is happening and if he says sorry then maybe try again. However, if he continues to do this then distract yourself away from him as he does not deserve you.

How do I speak to girls?

Just start things off slowly as friends. Not many girls want someone they don't know asking them out, so just make this slow pace. Invite her out as a friend, sit with her at lunch, text her, go to the crowd of people shes friends with and start talking to maybe the one you know, Do the little things to grab her attention x

Okay thanks (this is the hopeless one LOL). So you think that's all I should do and just see where it takes me?

Just see where it takes you as a friend, you may realise that you just want to be friends with him. If not, then I give you all the luck!

Im naturally thin but I personally think I'm too thin sigh

If you think your too thin then you should go to the doctors, if he agrees then you should start putting on weight. I know its easier said than done, but if you set yourself weight goals then you will quickly see the changes and be a happier you. x

I like him, I don't want him to know not now, I want him to get to know me a lot better first but maybe hint it at him a tiny bit? What do I do around him? how do I act? what do guys like? Lol im hopeless :/ x

Don't worry, you are not hopeless! Just try to smile at him, look directly at him while he talks to you as he'll know that you really care about what he is saying. Invite him out with other people to get to know him better. Text him every so often just for a friendly chat.

I'm 13 and I've had sex, is this bad?

It is young and if the person were older then they could get in a lot of trouble. But try to look past all this, focus yourself on making goals of next time you have sex that you will be older, more mature and really like/love the person. I would advise you not to have sex until you feel ready after your sixteen, you may get quite a bit of stick from people at school. And if your a girl, then having a baby at a little age of thirteen would be devastating.

Tips for people who are hopeless when it comes to crushes? (for girls)

boys can't read minds when it comes to who fancies them so you have to at least drop a few hints. Talk to them more and become his friend as its more likely boys will go out with people he actually knows. Ask a whole bunch of your friends out and invite him, so it not too obvious but then talk to him. Text him just seeing how he is. But if all fails there is plenty more boys to choose from x

What shall you do if you like someone that likes one of your mates :/

If he likes someone else then it would be really hard for his feelings to switch off and like you. Try to distract yourself away from the person and focus on other activities as soon you will realise that other people will catch your eye.

Can I have some relationship advice please?

Sure: Look in the persons eyes when they are talking as they will feel that you like hearing their story's. Ask him/her how they feel most days via text or messages. This will note them that you care of their well being. Try to do the little things as they are the ones that count.

OH EM GEE MY MAKEUP IZ 2 MESSED UP IM SOOOOO UGLEE

Beauty comes in different forms, try to focus on the positive more than the negative and soon you will realise that you are beautiful in your own way.

I suffer with BDD so it's kinda difficult for me to look in the mirror without me spewing my guts up :/

I am so sorry to hear this- please talk to someone like parents/teachers/doctors as they will give you loads of support and love x

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