(i was kidding lol can i eat my sahur first cuz aku lapar doh but im gonna help out anyway) thats what life does, it separates us from homies bcs ppl leave their homes all the time to achieve greater enlightenment and shit. he might still feel like home to u but u might not longer be his sbb whatever uve tried on him is not working from the way u describe. hv u tried jumpa this guy face to face? hv a nice bro session and ask all the whys. maybe he has deeper problem yg encourage him to devalue u guys punya friendship? if semua benda is not working then he is bloody unworthy of ur presence. two years of isolation kot