really wish u didnt put "without offending them" lol nyway theyve their beliefs uve yours. you cant run from them and they cant run from u. they think what u think is wrong and u think what they think is wrong yadayada ya know the drill. best thing is, never deal. the more u explain the more u'll contradict urself and looking at u being confused is their jam, they fucking dig it. be friendly w them, treat them no less than how u wld treat others cuz truth is deep down to almost molecular level we are all misguided. if not then kenapa ada clash in beliefs ^_^ i never bumped into holier than thou ppl in real life so im sorry if this doesnt help much ^_^