Male: when you say hey "whats up" & they say "idk", when you say "ily" and they say okay or even worse when you say "ily" to a friend people make rumors and crap. Female: we cannot be hapoy for someone because our jealousy takes over, like im sorry he hurt you and didnt like u but be hapoy for me at least. And us girls cant leave happy relationships alone, we have to try and ruin them just to make us feel better. :)