rest assured, you're not the only one feeling this way. one way to stop feeling not good enough is to lower the standards we've set for ourselves. society has such a high standard that we feel compelled to meet this benchmark. sometimes, our methods do us more harm than good. don't feel obliged to conform to society, sweetheart. make your own standard and reach that. please yourself before pleasing other people. it isn't easy, but it works. trust me, i've been there :) best of luck <3 x