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I fancy my boy best friend, and he knows. We are still best friends and its fine, he doesn't fancy anyone though, how can i get him to fall for me?

I always say that you can't MAKE someone fall for you. I would suggest showing him a couple signs that you like him, maybe even flirting a bit. You will know if he likes you back if he continues with the flirting or feels awkward about it xoxo

im 13 and all my friends have done stuff with guys (either sex, bj or fingered etc) but im the ugly one... i want to do something with a guy but i dont know how to

I'm sure you're not the ugly one. Don't feel like you have to be sexually involved with someone just because the people around you are. When I was 13 I didn't even think of things like that. Don't let peer pressure push you into things, you might regret them later xox

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I think I might be bisexual, I'm atleast bicurious, but I don't know how to tell my friends without them treating me differently. Plus, if I tell them, I don't want them to think I'm bi because I'm desperate. What shou I do?

I suggest being certain about your sexuality before you come out to the people close to you. Yes, you might feel like they will judge you but if they're real friends then they should understand xox
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i know food is important,but i told them i starve but they still do and ive told them Pleaase help<3

Maybe find some new friends to sit with at lunch? xx

Paul McCartney said: "If slaughterhouses had glass walls, everyone would be a vegetarian." What do you think about it?

I think that it's true. Nobody wants to eat something after they know how it had been killed.

I was in gym one day and we had to play volleyball and since I suck I missed the ball and everyone looked and me. I hate attention being drawn to me so I dug my nails into my skin. Now there is a bruise there. Do you know what this could mean? I wasn't bleeding or anything, I just scraped some skin.

Believe it or not, you self harmed. Self harm isn't only cutting yourself. It's also bruising, burning yourself, pulling your hair out and digging nail into your skin. You probably put too much pressure to the skin and a bruise formed. But nobody should ever look at you in a certain way because you missed a ball! You shouldn't worry, I bet everyone in your class missed the ball more than once in their lives xoxo

i have these two best friends and they always eat all my food and i sometimes starve myself at lunch so they do eat it how do i say to them nicely stop eating my food and still be friends?

You have to put your foot down. Tell them to stop or else. Food is very important, and you can't skip meals. Tell them how you sometimes starve yourself because of them. If they're real friends they should understand xox

i get called a emo and a fag at school and i feel like cutting again, as soon as ive stoped as well, my parents said to me that there ashamed of me and that im a stupid child, i asked my mum to move in with her but she said because im 14 i have to focus on my exams, i dont know what to do

You should sit down with your mum and have a long conversation with her. Tell her you feel like self harming again and tell her why. You might even want to suggest moving schools. I know from experience that saying "don't cut" doesn't help with anything. So try the elastic band method or the butterfly project. It should help xoxo

I self harm because i feel worthless, i starve myself because i'm a fat shit and no one likes me because, i just feel really depressed all the time like i have no friends, i get scared and really worried that people at school are talking about me, i'm never happy i always feel so down. help me?

I used to self harm. I felt exactly how you feel.
Here are some of the ways I stopped cutting:
Whenever I felt like cutting:
- I would go for a walk
- Listen to screamo music that expressed my feelings
- Elastic band method
- Do something that I loved
- Talk to someone.
I'm sure you're not fat and many people like you. You are beautiful, and don't let anyone make you think different. xoxo

Hello, I've been self-harming for awhile now. I'm not skinny enough, I'm not pretty enough, I'm bullied. I don't know what to do. It seems like death is easier then living. I'm scared to kill myself, but sometimes I feel so low and only a razor can heal the things my mind is throwing at me. Advice?x

I know how you feel. I went through a stage of self harming. But I got over it x. And so should you. Try the elastic band method and the butterfly project. The razor won't heal things, it will scar your body. xox

I kinda fancy this guy his lovely&fit and stuff, we haven't met yet but I'm really tall like 5 foot 6, and apparently his really small, I know it's superficial of me but I don't wanna date someone smaller than me, help?

You really shouldn't worry about something like height. I'm 17 and I'm 5ft 9. Guys don't really mind it though. And if you really like the guy then something like height shouldn't matter xo

I fancy this girl, i have known her for 2 years now, but she goes out with someone, i really like her and i love her so much, not just as a best freinds, but something else, im afraid if i say something she wont say anything to me again

If she is happy with the person she is currently going out with, then you should let her be happy with that person. If you confess to her it will most likely break the relationship not only between her and the boyfriend but also between you and her xx

If you were given a time machine to travel backwards in time, what are the three mistakes that you would want to rectify?

I wouldn't become friends with a certain someone
I wouldn't have become friends with the wrong people
I wouldn't have done drugs

If you could easily get hold of cigarettes, would you smoke?

No. If you asked me this a couple months back then I would shout "YES" because I was going through a rough time, but now I don't find it appealing at all.

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