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(continue) she doesn't like the fact that i hang out with her. what can i do? i don't want to lose any of my friends.

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Hey! My best friend got into a fight with a girl i have recently met. I know this girl quite well even though we haven't known each-other for a long time, and she has helped me through alot. My best friend doesn't really know her and started insulting her and she even told me (continued)

Hi, I completely sympathize with you on this ... It can be really hard to hang round with friends who dislike eachother and keep everybody happy! Why do you think she was insulting her? Do you think she's jealous that you're close with this girl too aswell as her? You need to tell her that you're not going to choose between any of your friends.. and if they make you then they're not worth it! Have you spoken to her about this? You should sit down and have a chat and tell her that you don't want to be in the middle of this anymore, you like them both etc. How do you feel about doing that?xx

Over weight~ I know as I checked my bmi! Please give me some ways to lose some weight I'm only slightly ovevweight!

Are you confident enough to go to the swimming pool etc? If not you could buy a work out DVD and just do it at your house? xx

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they say that i act like a man in the way i am protecting myself and when a boy say to me something dirty i don't let him and insult him in rough way and also i don't like any one to underestimate me so i also treat them in nervous way as they said and that push guys away,so what can i do?

No no no no NO! You're not acting like a man protecting yourself! Infact, I admire you for that because many girls do not stand up for themselves when a man looks at them like a piece of meat! If you're not happy with the way you're being .. then you can change.. but PLEASE don't make any decisions based on what other people say or think about you! You are who you are and they should respect that! Are you thinking you'd like to be more like your friends when it comes to speaking to boys?xx

Um I was wondering, would you say I'm lesbian or bisexual? I think guys are cute/hot but I'd only do sexual things and feel emotionally connected to girls. I'm confused, help?

Hello!
It's okay to be confused - FACT - everyone goes through this stage! I really wouldn't worry, I know it's easier said than done but you may not even be lesbian or bisexual. IF you are.. are you worried about telling people? Or are you entirely happy with who you are? :) xx

I'm slightly overweight. To be a normal weight I need to lose 6 pounds, Any advice on how to lose it? xx

First of all who told you you were overweight? If it's not the doctor, then you can't lose weight because you think you are - you need to seek medical advice first :) xx

I'm losing my friends, they said that i act like a man in the situation while I'm a woman .i'm 16 years old and they say that i'm pretty but i'm pushing guys away by this manly attitude and these words are right and influence me so what can i do ?

When they say manly attitude what do they mean? And you are who you are.. They should respect that! :) what kinds of things do they say you're doing to push guys away?xx

I have this friend and I feel like I'm not as important as her other friends. I feel like she likes them more than she likes me. She's lovely, but I just feel like I'm not enough for her and whatever I do, I still won't be as important as her other friends. What do I do?

It's okay to feel this way, it's not our fault. You're obviously trying very hard with her and feel like you're getting nothing back. I suggest you try and speak to her.. When you're on your own.. And just explain how you feel and be truthful about it. This way she will know how you're feeling and hopefully things will change!xx
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Period thing~ Not sure about starting ornot. Hai. Me again.Just to let you know when I wipe now its like a clean tissue. Its only been 1 and a half days so I think it was just a sign! Thanks x

Aww, you're welcome! :) xxx

My dick is so tiny, literally like 3.5 inches, wat do?

Everyone's penis is a different size. There is nothing you can do.

I asked you a question! You should've of answered.

Excuse me? If you remember I Am only ONE person and have ALOT of questions. At present, I currently do not have access to the Internet so am using my phone to answer these which make it more difficult. Patience is a virtue.

how do i tell people without upsetting them that i dont want a three some with them? ...

You have to tell then straight. Be honest with them - stand your ground. Say to them "I'm not having a threesome with you and that's my decision." They can't force you to had a three some when you don't want it. If you are feeling forced Into it, there are people you can talk to and councellors which can be helpful. Xx
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Hes told me he will tell me tomorow but he doesnt want to tell anyone else and im worried incase its something i really big :/

Okay, I understand you're worrying - but you need to stay strong for him - keep calm and speak to him no matter what's upsetting him x

How can i help my friend he is too scared to tellme what is wrong but its clearly somethingserious because he broke down into tears at school today but he didnt say why because everyone crowded him

Invite him over, when you two are on your own... watching some tv and he's feeling relaxed and calm... tell him you're always there for him, going to support him whatever it is.. and he may open up then?

On the Internet, I've never seen him and I probably never will x

You need to weigh up the options then - positives and negatives of your relationship x

I live in England and my boyfriend lives in America and we don't talk much, I love him and I think he loves me! Does this seem like a relationship?

Long distant relationships can work... did you meet him in person or on the internet? And is there a possibility you'd be able to see eachother in person at all? x

I tried to spend time with my crush today like you said and we are getting closer thanks x

Aww, i'm so happy for you :) xxx

I'm 13 nearly 14 and my bf is 17 nearly 18! Does this sound wrong

It's a fairly big age gap considering you're technically still a child in the eyes of the government, and your boyfriend is nearly an adult. However, if you're happy then who am I to judge? Aslong as you don't feel pushed into doing anything, then you have the right to be with whoever you wish x

I get really bad period pain... my stomach feels like I'm being stabbed, my head hurts, I ache all over, and I'm really uncomfortable. Anything I can do to help stop the pain?

There are a couple of things which can help - paracetamol, a hot water-bottle on your stomach, lots of rest and sleep, and meditation! x

your amazing!i hope you know that any one you have helped would agree! your advice is just the best! thanks sooo much! :D <3 xxx eveyone who agrees like the answer! show her how amazing she is! :) xxx

Aww thank you so much <3 Appreciate it xxxxxx
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my friend is texting me and she keeps saying this is the end, i tink she might try to kill herself she has tried before... :( what should i do? xx

I suggest you speak to her parents immediately, or anyone she lives with. This way they can look after her and keep her safe. How do you feel about that? xx

i dont know what to do, basically i'm 16 and i am at the age where i am deciding my sexuality, i know its normal as a boy to like girls but i'm not sure i do, i just like the feeling of dic in my hands and a vagina feels abnormal! HELP :(

I understand, don't worry. Just because you're having these feelings doesn't mean that they're actually true. You may just be confused at the moment. What are you most worried about? The fact that if you are gay... you wouldn't know what to say to people? x

I am straight, and a girl told me she likes me but I am a girl and have no feelings for her in that way..

Are you asking me what I think you should say to her to let her down slowly?xx

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