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I have starved myself for 2 weeks I am now 5 stone 9 I was 12 stone 2

I'm sorry you're going through this. This is such a dangerous thing to do, and can leave you with eating disorders like anorexia etc, not to mention the health problems which can start because of this. Have you got anyone to speak to? A parent, reletive, teacher etc? A trustworthy adult? How do you feel about visiting the doctor?xx

I used to cut, and I told my bestfriend. but she ended up telling about six people and she broke 3 promises and lied to me a bunch of times. she still won't admit to telling my friend. I had to become friends with her again and she is still obsessed with me. what should I do?

I'm sorry she has broken your trust - it can leave you feeling low and as a result of it, not allow you to trust anyone in future. You must be so, so careful who you speak to about delicate things like that. I know you felt she was a trustworthy person because she is your friend; but even the people we think we can trust, we actually can't. I would advise you to speak to a counsillor or a relative etc, someone you know you can definatly trust and someone who won't spread it around school. When you say you used to cut.. have you started again or have you stopped for good?
I understand she's told people - and that must have made you feel terrible. Has anyone asked you about it or spoken about it?
What do you mean you had to become friends with her again... ? xx

It's only my weight that brings me down, no i cant tell anyone.

I see. Have you spoken to your doctor about this?

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this random 28 yea old just messaged me on fb :/ what d i d?? xx

Don't accept him and block him straight away. He may be someone dangerous, a stalker, pedophile etc.. never take the chance. What sort of thing has he said?!xx

you are beautiful! xx you look like a mix between katy perry and perrie edwards! <3

Really?! :L Haha! I don't think so! xxx

My ex is blaming herself for me self harming what can i do

I'm sorry you're going through this. I'm wondering, what is making you self harm? Because maybe she think's its her making you self harm? You need to speak to her and tell her the reasons as to why you're doing it, and if it has nothing to do with her - then explain what it is :) xx

I really like him, and he thought I was 16 too, he doesn't want sex, he said he'd wai until I want it?!xxx

If you feel okay with that, then it's entirely up to you who you date.. but be careful and make sure he doesnt try and force you into anything xx

?? you just posted on my wall "dont add me again you fucking weirdo" wtf??

Sorry, that was not me. My friend was on my facebook and must have see you and not recognised you and was worried that someone I didn't know was contacting me. I shall add you again xx

Still the same old as I told you aha xx

I know, :( It's horrible but you will get through it. Speak to you there. <3

I have u on what's app and Facebook

Ohh! I know who you are now, I'll look at my phone and speak to you there xx

Shite hahaha! Xxx

Aww :( Want to talk about it? You don't have to on here, you can speak to me elsewhere if you prefer?xx

The butterfly one seems good, I got it from a different page

Yeah it does, :) I would reccommend that too!xx

Or try an alastic band on ur wrist and tug on it if u want to self harm

Yeah, that's what I suggested too. It's useful xx

For the girls hating on the person, for self harm try the butterfly challenge. Put a butterfly on ur wrist one a family member in he butterfly if u cut you've killed the butterfly and hurt the person who's name is in the butterfly

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Also it just gets too much for me, they give me so much hate but I have depression and I cut myself and I'm just scared I'll do something stupid, I don't understand what I did to make thm hate me so much

I understand, don't worry. Depression is a nasty thing and so is self harm. Have you got any other coping mechanisms you can use when you want to self harm? For example drawing on your arms in red pen, so therefor not actually hurting yourself? Or you could write down all your feelings? Listen to music? Speak to someone you trust and can confide in? Put an elastic band on your wrist and ping it everytime you get the urge to cut yourself. This way it doesn't leave scars. Have you got a councillor you can speak to about this?xx
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No, I live in america. But I think I could find some numbers. But how would I bring this up? It'd be kind of weird to just tell them to call it.

Okay - if not I can find you some from America. You could drop it into a conversation - say you wrote down a number she could call .. you saw it on a poster or something? Or a number on a bus? xx

Nd they give me dirty looks when ever I walk past them, they always stare at me, and just make me feel worth less. A few weeks ago they use to walk past me and say "uggh" and nobody believes me bevause they all think she's the nicest girl in school but she makes my life a hellll all of them do. I w

I can understand how you feel, the people who act the most kind, innocent and lovely people are usually the spiteful quite bitchy ones, yet no one notices. You get that everywhere, trust me. If it's getting too much for you, which I can see it is and it would anyone! - then you do need to tell someone because you can't go on like this. How do you feel about reporting it?xx

so then if I wanted to make my calf muscles smaller that wouldn't be a good choice or excersise?:$

I'm sorry, I don't know much about that - you'd have to ask someone who worked at the gym. Google may even have some answers?

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