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my friend teases me about being a lesbian because i go to a girls school. it's really bugging me now and she pisses me off, i cant tell her to stop because she'd think i cant take a joke. what to do?
I'm sorry she's saying this, you don't deserve this said to you even if she does think it's a 'joke'. She may think it's a joke and is harmless, but that's because she's not having it said to her. I suggest you speak to her about this... This doesn't mean you 'cant take a joke'. She's your friend and if shes your TRUE friend she'll stop and accept your feelings. How do you feel about just saying casually "can you stop please?" xx
I know I didn't mean it like that though & yeahh
It's okay :) And do your parents know how you feel about that? Like how you want a better relationship with them and not to have as many arguments?
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I used to selfharm. I don't now tough & no not really, I hate stopping at other peoples houses
Oh, I thought you still did as you said self harm.
I see... do you want a better relationship with your parents though? x
I see... do you want a better relationship with your parents though? x
Everything is going wrong. I selfharm, family arguing constantly, lots of stress for exams, etc :(( x
Aw no :( First of all, you sound like a very strong person!
i'm concerned you're self harming though, - does anyone know and is anyone supporting you?
I understand and sympathize with you entirely on the family argument situations, how bad does it get sometimes? Could you maybe stay with a friend or a relative for a weekend etc? Don't worry about exams seriously! By all means revise etc, but DON'T stress yourself out about it too much, because there is always a re-take! It's NOT the end of the world and years and years later you can re-take! You're never going to actually FAIL! <3
i'm concerned you're self harming though, - does anyone know and is anyone supporting you?
I understand and sympathize with you entirely on the family argument situations, how bad does it get sometimes? Could you maybe stay with a friend or a relative for a weekend etc? Don't worry about exams seriously! By all means revise etc, but DON'T stress yourself out about it too much, because there is always a re-take! It's NOT the end of the world and years and years later you can re-take! You're never going to actually FAIL! <3
Everything is going wrong, I just want to know there is someone there I can talk to, not a councellor just a good friend. I just honestly feel 100% worthless
I'm sorry you're feeling worthless, NO one is worthless!
Everybody has a purpose :)
What sort of things are going wrong for you?
Well I know i'm not your friend, but I care and you can speak to me confidentially whenever you want. You can add me as a friend on facebook etc if you need to speak more often. I'm here to listen.
Do your friends not understand then?xx
Everybody has a purpose :)
What sort of things are going wrong for you?
Well I know i'm not your friend, but I care and you can speak to me confidentially whenever you want. You can add me as a friend on facebook etc if you need to speak more often. I'm here to listen.
Do your friends not understand then?xx
I feel worthless and like everyone would be better off without me:(
I'm really sorry you're feeling like this. You don't deserve to, you deserve to have a smile on your face!
What is making you feel this way?
What is making you feel this way?
Do gay people get upset if you use gay as a negative adjective? or just saying like a sport is gay.
Yes, some gay people do take offence to it, infact MOST gay people do x
I self harm, and there was a rumor going about that I started when my girlfriend broke up with me, but I started even before we went out. Now I'm really worried that she thinks its her fault and blames herself. (We're still really close friends) and I want to make sure that she knows its not her fau
Hi :) I'm really sorry this is happening, it's not fair on your or her. The best thing to do is ignore what they're saying. I know this isn't always easy but you've not got to explain yourself to anyone. It's nothing to do with them and your ex girlfriend should know you're telling the truth if you're bet friends. Another thing I'm concerned about is your self harming. Have you got anyone to talk to and support you?
P.s if the rumours do persist then you have the right to report them!
P.s if the rumours do persist then you have the right to report them!
What do you look like when you wake up in the morning?
I look like I've had a chiffon based anaphylactic shock!
Overweight~ Sounds great, Thanks c:
You're welcome!xx
(Continued) I know that I'm better off without him:) thank you for all your help, it honestly means so much xx
You really are! :) I'm so glad you know that! and aww, i'm always here. You're more than welcome xx
do you have twittar?
I used to, not anymore. I have Kik, facebook if thats any help?x
I've become more confident now because I kept what he said a secret from some of my besties but when I told them they all stuck up for me, as did so many people I know and it made me feel a lot better seeing how many people like me, and plus he wasn't very popular in the first place so I know that i
Exactly! He's not happy with himself so constantly put you down to make himself feel better! He's the one who's going to live a sad and lonely life - no girl is going to stay with him for a long period of time after what he's like!
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http://ask.fm/StayStrong107/answer/39058701967 I'd be very happy to tell people, nothing to be ashamed of right?c:
Well done! Very proud of you! Of course there's nothing to be ashamed of ! xx
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Aww bless you! right back at you!<3
Thank you that helps a lot!! Yeah my ex was horrible to me the first time we had a fight he said really horrible things about me, saying that any boy who fancies me had low standards and It lowered my self esteem so much, now I think this other guy might like me a little, yeah they do know but it's
You're more than welcome! :)
I'm sorry to hear that :( It's not nice to be treated that way and you're much better off without him!
You need to get that self esteem right back up and shov it in his face! He's the one with the problem, not you!
I'm sorry to hear that :( It's not nice to be treated that way and you're much better off without him!
You need to get that self esteem right back up and shov it in his face! He's the one with the problem, not you!
10 favorite songs to keep your mood happy?
The Beatles - Here come's the sun,
K'naan - Waving flag
Colbie Caillat - Bubbly
Jennifer Lopez - On the floor
Sean Kingston - Fire burning
Ke$ha - Tik Tok
Chris Brown - Yeah
Abba - Dancing queen
Black eyed peas - I gotta feeling
Robbie Williams - Candy
Sorry if you don't like them..or if some of them are old.. I couldn't think of any others! xx
K'naan - Waving flag
Colbie Caillat - Bubbly
Jennifer Lopez - On the floor
Sean Kingston - Fire burning
Ke$ha - Tik Tok
Chris Brown - Yeah
Abba - Dancing queen
Black eyed peas - I gotta feeling
Robbie Williams - Candy
Sorry if you don't like them..or if some of them are old.. I couldn't think of any others! xx
how do I stop my friend from cutting?
Hello :)
Unfortunately you cannot stop your friend, or anyone from self harming. However, what you CAN do is be there as a good friend, supporting them, feeding them positive compliments to build their self esteem up, and be trustworthy and caring. I'm sure you're already all of these things so I don't need to tell you! :)
Do you know if she's had counselling before or has a councellor now? Having a councellor will help a great deal because she can speak through her feelings with a professional confidentially. xx
Unfortunately you cannot stop your friend, or anyone from self harming. However, what you CAN do is be there as a good friend, supporting them, feeding them positive compliments to build their self esteem up, and be trustworthy and caring. I'm sure you're already all of these things so I don't need to tell you! :)
Do you know if she's had counselling before or has a councellor now? Having a councellor will help a great deal because she can speak through her feelings with a professional confidentially. xx
i do live in England, thanks :) xx
You're welcome! :) xx
We're going on a school tour next year (I know it ages away bu still haha) and I'm scared she's going to say something and everyone will find out? She keeps putting lots of pressure on me to get his number and drug but I don't know what to do:/
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Loads of people think I'm jealous of her when I'm not?? I just really don't like my ex... Anyways this new guy I'm talking to doesn't like my ex either and I told my friend I fancy him, now she keeps putting pressure on me to make out with him but I've never kissed anyone before??im nervous becau...
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Hi, so at the start of this year I began talking to a guy from a few of my classes, he's real nice and quite good looking and real athletic and I think I fancy him a bit, but I'm not sure. There's another guy I went out with last year and we ended on bad terms, he now has a gf and (continued)
Hello :) First of all - I know it's hard to think to do.. but show them you don't care if people are saying you're jealous of your ex's new girlfriend! You don't need to explain yourself to ANYONE! YOU yourself know if you're jealous or not - so it's not anyone else's business! Of course you're going to strongly dislike your ex boyfriend, it's natural!
I understand you're feeling pressured by your friends to make out with him .. but at the end of the day if they were your true friends.. they wouldn't be pushing you. They'd be there supporting you, understanding you and your feelings on it. Do they know how you're feeling, e.g. pressured into it by them? And do they know you've never kissed anyone before?
The thing is, with these things.. you cannot afford to rush into it if you're not ready or don't feel like doing it just because they're pressuring you. It's NOT fair. You are your own person, stick up for whats right and how YOU feel - because at the end of the day you don't have to do anything they make you to do.
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I understand you're feeling pressured by your friends to make out with him .. but at the end of the day if they were your true friends.. they wouldn't be pushing you. They'd be there supporting you, understanding you and your feelings on it. Do they know how you're feeling, e.g. pressured into it by them? And do they know you've never kissed anyone before?
The thing is, with these things.. you cannot afford to rush into it if you're not ready or don't feel like doing it just because they're pressuring you. It's NOT fair. You are your own person, stick up for whats right and how YOU feel - because at the end of the day you don't have to do anything they make you to do.
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hi where would i get a councellor thats not from my school? xx
It depends where you live.. Are you in England? If so, you can go to the YES centre and they provide you with free, confidential councelling :) xxx
i guess i could try it, thnks for the advice xxx
You're welcome <3 feel free to ask for more advice/help if it doesn't work xxx
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