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What's your take on downlow men?

I don't have a take on it, because it's not really something I concern myself with and who am I to judge?
if you're not comfortable with people knowing that you're gay, and you don't think it's anybody's business, I think that should be your choice. I think that everyone deserves their right to privacy. if you're on the DL because of your family, your career, whatever, that's your choice.
what I don't like, though, is men hiding who they are and then still sleeping around with women. being on the DL does not mean that you have to continue to sleep with women. THOSE are the people that I think are assholes, when you LIE about who you are and still carry on relationships with women. that's foul. but ALL DL men do not do that.

How's the gay scene in Atlanta? Is it hard to find guys?

I don't necessarily know if I'd go to the gay scene in atlanta looking for a relationship. I just go to clubs to have a good time, never with the intention of meeting anyone of substance, so I don't really know.
but if you just like to get cute and dress up and hang out with your friends, then the scene is great, in my opinion.

Have you ever had a relationship with a DL man?

I have. I think that him being on the DL was a choice made because of his career, not because he was ashamed of who he was.

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What's your thoughts on ciara?

her time's up. I like ciara, I think she has everything that she needs to be a star, but she just thinks she can do it all herself. clearly, what she's done in the past isn't working. so she needs a team to help her out and make her get out of her comfort zone and do something different.

How attached are you to your locs? Do you ever wonder about life without them?

I don't know how attached to the "locs," I am. but I couldn't live my life without hair. I mean, I don't care whether it's locked or if I just had it out, but I couldn't do life without hair. I would look crazy as hell!

Anal sex. What was your first consensual experience like? How do you prepare when you're about to do it?

my first consensual sexual experience was... interesting. I mean, it was kind of romantic, but difficult, because at the time, I had issues with intimacy, because of my previous situations with sex. so it was good and bad at the same time.
how do I prepare? what do you mean? I mean, honestly, a good shower and making sure I haven't eaten in a timely manner. spontaneous sex is SO not something that I'm ready for yet. I need to know in advance.

Do you think Rihanna is becoming more relevant/successful than Beyonce?

relevancy will never overshadow talent. but the answer's still no.

I've been 'following' your writing & your twitter forever. You seem like the most genuine free spirit. It's kind of cool to see your growth, so I kinda look up to you. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?

thank you. <3 people that say that always make me smile really big.
I appreciate it. and I appreciate the word "growth" a lot. so thank you. but in 5 years? I just see myself continuing to build and better brands that I'm working on right now. I also see myself living bicoastly between atlanta and LA and doing more vocal producing. I also see myself in a happy, healthy relationship. :)

Have you ever had sex with a white guy? Are you attracted to whit le guys?

I've never had sex with a white guy before, and I can't say that I'm really attracted to white men. it's rare that white men really catch my attention. the ones I have been attracted to, usually have extremely dark, ethnic features. and are usually taller and more built. I don't know, go figure.

Thoughts on bareback sex?

not really the most hygienic, safe thing to do. I mean, if you've been with your partner a long time and that's something you guys wanna do every once in a while, I think you have a right to. but I used to work for AID atlanta, so I'm a little, I don't know, I'm a little afraid of it.

Do you think being a bottom is limiting? Would you top for the right person?

I don't. why would it be limiting if you like doing it? I don't know what that means, "the right person." if he was the right person for me, and I liked being a bottom, I don't think that I should have to compromise what I like by topping him. if bottoming is limiting, so topping.

Do you know any famous black men on the low besides Frank O?

I don't know that frank ocean is "on the low." I honestly don't even think the man is gay; he never said he was.
but I don't know if I'd call them "famous." I don't really consider athletes that aren't in the limelight famous, but there are tons of athletes that like men. also, there are lot of producers who are interested in men as well, but putting their business out there isn't really my place! there are plenty out there though. I've met a couple.

Do you miss Danity Kane ? Do you who in the group didn't get along?

I do miss danity kane. I was watching old performances of them on youtube the other day from their tour and thought about how much they used to slay as a unit. I think it was pretty obvious who didn't get along in the group.

Since you self-identify as naturally fem, do potential partners always put you in a sexual box and are you cool with that?

yes. most people do put me in a box, and I'm fine with that, because honestly, what you see is pretty much what you get. usually, what your assumptions about me sexually are going to be what's the truth, 9 times out of 10. I don't have a problem with that because people make assumptions anyway. it's the way of the world.

Could you give me some advice about being a woman going into the entertainment business. I know you are a male, but you seem to be well-rounded and know a lot about that field. Thank you!

don't ho around with niggas in the industry is the best advice I can give you as a woman.
it's a male dominated industry at this point and it's hard for women to break in and be taken seriously other than some guy's jump off. this isn't to generalize women in the industry, but a lot of men view women in the industry as though a man had to put them on and give them their position, and that's not fair.
so just stay true to your core values, and integrity and work really hard.

So the Yes Ma'ams aren't the same three girls? I loved Privacy, Secret and Slander!

why are you saying that you "loved" them as if they aren't still around?!

Do you like swallowing your partner's jizz?

here's the thing about that. I don't see the problem with swallowing because I'm not sucking anybody's dick that I don't trust enough to swallow, if that makes any sense. so I guess the answer'd be yes.

You recently made a comment that spoke my reality. You said that it takes a certain type of man to appreciate the type of person you are and I've always felt this way about myself!! Why do you think a naturally fem man is frowned upon by the majority?

I'm not sure. I guess there's something taboo about it. but I've come to accept the fact that it really just isn't for everybody. I think that sometimes people are afraid of naturally feminine guys because they don't wanna see the feminine qualities reflected in themselves.

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