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What makes you block someone on social media??

Kapag asshat. I recently blocked my BLEEEECH exbf GUWAARK of the 90s when he greeted me hbd recently. I finally told him off bec he was kiss&telling stuff abt me/us sa mga nakikilala niyang katrabaho ko!!! Bastos. Told him off 1st them block! Nag-deny pa si gago. Assfuckinghat. Di ata maka-move on na naging lesbiyana ako after I broke off with him. Tarantado.

Ano yung comfort song mo? At bakit?

"Downtown" by Petula Clark kasi relate ako sa sinasabi ng song sobra #soundtrackofmylife siya for decades. Kaso nakaka-depress na siya pakinggan now bec effin lockdowns. "When you're alone / and life is making you lonely / you can always go downtown." Anuna earth.

What bit of trivia do you know that is very interesting but also very useless?

I know what KGB stands for, pre-Google era pa. Also yung ilaw sa film shoot, HMI.

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What was the last song you danced to?

Jai Ho pare. The Pussycat Dolls version. I learned Bollywood choreo in Rajasthan, India, pare, so don't dare me lol.

unfair ba na mag entertain ng maraming manliligaw or unfair pag maraming nililigawan?

Unfair kanino? Wtf are these qs coming from??? Strange na is this site. Na app na pala.

pag hindi na ba nagreply, hindi siya interested ?

Pag hindi siya nag-reply, wala siyang manners. Next!

Who would you choose, the one who loves you or the one you love? Why?

Bakit choice ito? Hindi ba dapat parehong existing siya sa same sphere?

Give tips naman po. Paano pag 1st date & 1st meet nyo ng gf nyo? Ano mga dapat gawin at pag-usapan? Nawawalan kasi ng sasabihin in person haha.

I'm sorry na-lost ako teh. So GF mo na siya, pero wala pa kayong 1st date at 1st meet??? Um, so paano kayo naging kayo, kung walang date at walang meet? Relationship via mental telepathy ba itey? Kalurkey. Expound next time.
At saka kung gusto mo talaga yung tao at click kayo, dapat kahit pamorningan puwede kayong magkaharap at nag-uusap nang dire-diretso lang. Conversations are the first connections lagi, and if you don't have anything to talk about in the first place, then there's no connection and there's no click to sustain this.
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PAANO MO MAPAPA BALUKTOT ANG STRAIGHT? haha i mean kung may gusto ka kaso ayaw nya sa same sex. Dahil nilamon sya ng sistemang adan at eba.

Baka sabihin din niyang nilamon tayo ng kasalanan dahil hindi adan ang hinahanap nating mga eba. Lesbianism is not like vampirism, na pag kinagat mo eh vampire na din siya. If you force yourself on someone who doesn't like you, then that is some form of harassment. I'm sorry but that's the ugly truth of it. We are here to love women, not to convert the straight world to recruit members. Mas masahol pa tayo sa religious fundamentalist idiots kapag ganyan ang worldview natin. New year na teh. Maghanap ka ng kabaro, hindi yung kusa mong bibihisan nang labag sa loob niya. It's also a form of rape, you know. Be more aware, please.
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Mabigat sa pakiramdam ko na yung ex gf at bestfriend ko ay may relasyon ngyon.Alam naman ng bestfriend ko na mahal ko pa ex ko.Anu po gagawin ko ngyon para gumaan na pakiramdam ko?thank you..36/lesbian

Mabigat nga yan teh. Pero mas mabigat mabuhay nang dala-dala mo ang mga bagaheng dati pa dapat iniwan. Kung talagang mahal mo pa siya, hayaan mo siyang maging masaya sa kung saan siya masaya. I believe na hindi dapat kasi selfish ang pagmamahal. Tingnan mo na lang if this works for you: LOVE YOURSELF MORE. And hey, sorry to say this, pero pramis, marami pa diyan! Kahit hindi ka maghanap, may darating. Ganyan gumana ang universe minsan. Tiwala ka lang.
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Libay, miss na kita!!! paramdam ka naman.

HAHAHA eto na teh! Kung sino ka man! LOL. Reviving all that needs reviving in my life this year.
My film review blog is also updated: leaflenstakilya.wordpress.com
My mothership personal queer blog din: leaflens.blogspot.com
More to cum! Este come.
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What is a skill you’d like to learn and why?

I've been meaning to learn capoeira for like a decade already!!!!! Add parkour to that wish list.

Pano makipagsex sa another girl if wala ka pang experience on sex?if virgin ka and experienced yung jowa mo.

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Sex is about exploration of your body and self and sharing that exploration with another being. Regardless of your (in)experience, you should both communicate well if you want to explore each other sexually. Hindi dahil virgin ka ay wala kang alam. Instinct ang nagpapaandar sa inyo sa sex. At hindi dahil experienced na ang jowa mo ay alam na niya ang gagawin niya sa iyo. Each body is a new one, and each new body should be explored anew. Walang template. Kapaan lang what works and what doesn't sa inyong chemistry.
Happy exploring!

Ano ang paborito mong dula, at bakit?

Wala naman. Mahilig akong manood ng dula, pero wala akong masasabing paborito talaga. Ewan lang kung bakit.

Iskolar ng Bayan... o Iskolar Para sa Bayan? At bakit?

Pareho lang ang epek niyan sa akin. Pa-epek lang ang ganyan. Mag-aral na lang nang mabuti para maka-gradweyt at makatulong sa pag-unlad ng lipunan at ekonomiya ng bansa, tapos.
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If you have a sex problem, who will you ask on ask.fm?

Darling, people seem to ask *me* when they have such problems here on this site. But I ask real people offline for that. Although I don't really have sex problems. Yeah, offline, people ask me, too, when they have problems.

do you masturbate? if yes, saan, sa cr or sa kwarto? hahaha 😂😂

Kung saan ko feel, at sa private area lang of course wahahahahaha! Although I rarely do this when I have a partner who's a great sexual partner. :)
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Hello Libay. Sa lahat ng pwedeng mapansing photos mo doon sa mga blogs mo, yung mga naka side view mong posing ang nakapukaw ng aking atensyon dahil sa tangos ng iyong ilong. May lahi ka bang foreigner - Spanish or Portugese? Beauty ka ha kahit medyo boyish porma mo. (ang landi ko ba? LOL)

Beauty naman ako talaga anuman ang porma ko hahaha! Charut! Salamat sa nice words. Yes, my father side relatives have Spanish lineage while my mother naman has Chinese, pero mas nangibabaw yata ang Spanish blood sa akin. Paborito ng lola ko yang tangos ng ilong ko. Laging iyan ang pinagyayabang niya dati hehe.

ma'am, sorry po. not about SOGIE or gender-based... more on decency po ito.. I am also lesbian, and yes naasiwa po ako coz we're all adults naman in that bank, pero para mag pisilan blues po eh over na. kasi it reminded me of similar incident before, meron nag react i.e. negative ang LGBT in general

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Sorry sa backlog ng reply na ito. But yeah, I agree with your opinion. Asiwa nga kapag ganun. Masyadong bulgar for my taste as well.

Hello Ma'am Libay, ang tagal ko nang gusto malaman ang sagot sa tinanong mo sa amin: Ano ang kulay ng gabi?

Hahaha dapat ikaw ang makadiskubre niyan, teh. :) Balitaan mo ko kapag alam mo na.

Follow-up question po: Do you think there's a proper way and place to have lesbian PDA? Kasi nga po gawa nung nakita ko. Di kasi PDA yon for me and for sure, for those na nakakita. Sorry po, medyo nawindang lang ako kasi first time ko makakita ng ganun sa public place. o.0

Again, we have to separate whether your discomfort is seeing a lesbian-oriented PDA or a PDA, period. Sa akin, decorum pa rin ang nangingbabaw dapat kaya ang PDA ay hindi dapat super-excessive. Kung get-a-room type na ito, wapakels kung hetero o queer sila: parehong ligwak in my book. I'm sex-positive, yes, but I'm also pro-decency in public kasi.
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Ma'am Libay, I don't know how to ask this, pero I know ikaw lang po makakasagot nito ng tama. Is it wrong to feel annoyed or parang nabastusan if nakakita ako ng magjowang lesbian (both femme) in a public place (e.g. bank) na naka ankgla yung isang girl sa girl nya at pinipisil-pisil yung side ng...

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continued...side ng boobs ni girl? I wanna tell them to get a room, kaso nakakahiyang mag-ingay at makialam. But I feel na na-aasiwa na yung mga ibang clients na nakapila. I know di dapat maki-alam sa buhay ng may buhay, but it's a bit too far na diba po? Or masyado lang kasi tayong conservative?
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Hindi sexual orientation, gender identity/gender expression (SOGIE) ang isyu mo dito, kundi isyu ito ng PROPRIETY. Not really about conservatism as well, but about decorum, respectability, decency, appropriateness, at iba pang terms na ibig sabihin ng proriety, sabi ng dictionary ko.
Ako din isyu sa akin ito, dahil di ko bet ang SINUMAN na masyadong OA na sa PDA, mapa-hetero man yan o homo. Walang kaso sa akin ang SOGIE at gora magmahalan kayo. Pero para gawin yang mga bagay na yan in public, off din sa akin lalo na kapag excessive na, tulad nung na-witness mo.
Check mo na lang sa sarili mo kung SOGIE-based o PROPRIETY-based yung dismaya mo sa nakita mo. Kasi kanya-kanya din yan ng lente sa pagtingin sa mundo.
Sana'y nasagot ko ang tanong mo nang mahusay.

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Ms Libay, hangang-hanga ako sa mga sinulat mo sa POC at sa iyong blog. Nakakatulong ito sa aking pagkatao - sa pagdiskubre at pag validate na lesbian nga ako after years of being single and researching about sexuality. Salamat sa pagbahagi ng kaalaman at kamalayan. Ako'y iyong instant fan. =)

Glad to know na nakakatulong ang mga sulatin ko sa iyong self-discovery. Iyan naman ang purpose ko kung bakit ako nagbabahagi ng buhay ko sa mga sulatin ko. Baka may mapulot ang mambabasa na ideya na makakatulong sa sarili nilang mga kuwento sa buhay. Muli, maraming salamat!
Oh P.S. nagsimula din ako ng wattpad account para naman sa iba ko pang sulatin. basa ka lang din pag may time, for more! :) http://www.wattpad.com/user/leaflens
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ms. libay, parang ang sarap mo................. maging friend. LOL marami akong natututunan sa iyo through your POC column and blog. salamat!

Haha comment of the year ka teh. Salamat sa pagbabasa! At oo, sabi ng jowa ko, masarap daw ako hahaha. Na kaibigan at iba pa, ahihihi.
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Ano ang "UP REPERTORY COMPANY" para sa iyo ?

Ang org na nais kong salihan noon pero turned off ako sa hell week activities nila. Plus not enough extrovert mode during that time kaya nalipasan na ng panahon lola mo.

What was your first concert? No matter how embarrassing - let's hear it.

MENUDO pare sa Araneta Coliseum, yung composition na bagong salta pa lang si Ricky Martin sa grupo hehe. I'm not embarrassed by this, because this marks my generation. At least nakita ko nung 13 years old pa lang ang future gay icon pala of my generation pa rin, right? Right.

Your thoughts on death penalty?

RRamwell’s Profile PhotoRamuel
There should be certain crimes against persons that merit the death penalty. Rape, for one, especially committed against children. Pre-meditated murder is another. And others.
Before, I saw a male judge hand down a supposed guilty verdict for a rape case but he reclassified it into a mere acts of lasciviousness verdict to avoid sentencing the death penalty for rape before. That was a long time ago here, when I was with my lawyer ex who handled the case. The victim was a 9 year old girl, and it broke my heart that her perpetrator got away with this mere slap on the wrist verdict. Where's justice when you need it, right?
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Plans for an expensive gift for my gf for her birthday. (First time exp gift planning) Bestfriend says things like (sarcastically as possible): "Family first"Why not give that kind of gift for your fam" etc. What can you say about this? Im providing for my fam btw. I help in financing etc.

Two things at work here: the concept of expensive gift giving and the concept of providing for your family. If you can do both, why not? But I'm not really a firm believer of giving expensive gifts especially if you're not that liquid. If you are, then by all means give to your heart's content. Just don't forget to fulfil your duties as well.
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Would it be better to work in Dubai (for ex.) first then proceed to London. Would it be easier to land a job in London that way?

Boklo mukha ba akong POEA or OWWA? Google is your friend. Try researching k. Good luck!

Pano pasikotsikot sa paggamit ng credit card. How it works..etc..

Boklo mukha ba akong bank teller? Better ask that from the proper authorities. But my advice: Kung di mo alam, delikado kaya huwag ka nang kumuha hangga't di mo alam.

Post a picture of the magnets on your fridge!

It's full of ref magnets I buy as souvenirs for my trips. Masyadong marami na teh. Kebs na.

Pumasok ako sa relasyong hindi ako handa dahil narealize ko na di pa pala ko nakakamove on sa ex ko after some months. After 2mos nakipagbreak ako agad sa bago. Masama na ba kong tao?

Mas masama kung hinayaan mo itong magtagal knowing na hindi ka solb makisama sa isang bagong tao na di mo pa naipapagpag ng husto ang lumang tao sa pagkatao mo.
You were just being honest and that is actually brave. Ganyan talaga, minsan hahanap-hanapin natin ang nakasanayan nating jowa mode kaya kahit di pa tayo healed nang husto, talon agad tayo sa bagong relasyon. Hindi lang siya ang magiging kawawa, kundi ikaw lalo. Para kang nakipag-karera sa marathon na hindi pa healed ang sprain mo. Tapos may umakay sa iyo pero hanggang saan ang mararating niyo? Pareho kayong matatalo niyan. Kaya tama lang na habang maaga, tinapos mo muna. Malay mo, nariyan pa siya kapag fully healed ka na. Or baka may iba pang darating later on.
Huwag kasing magmadali. Love takes time to heal sabi nga ni lola mariah. Maging mas honest ka rin sa sarili mo muna, at mas mabuti pang patibayin mo muna ang loob mo bago ka pumasok sa panibagong hamon ng iyong pagkatao.
Hope that helped. Good luck teh!

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Seryoso. Pano magpaputi at kinis ng kilikili??

Naawa naman ako sa iyo teh. Don't buy so much into the capitalistic commercial body myth stuff. Inner byuti pa rin, k.

Butt and boobs? boobs and brain? butt and brain? BOOBS?

Please don't post rhetorical questions here. What's the point devah? Pero kung ako tatanungin, all of the above siyempre.

How did people have fun 200 years ago?

Something sexual, I'm sure. Or else, di tayo aabot ng 7 billion people right now. or 8 na ba?

How do you prefer to travel?

Any way is fine by me as long as the company I have, if any, when traveling is a stress-free companion (or companions) pero the smaler the group is better for me or the best kung dalawa lang kami ng sweetheart ko ganyan kasi minsan nakaka-overwhelm ang maraming kasama rin. Although ilag pala ako sa long-term sea travel like boats or ships pero kung ito lang ang mode to get from point A to point B then gora na rin basta hindi aabot ng isang oras siguro sa open seas ang peg.

Nabasa ko yung article mo; http://thepoc.net/index.php/lets-talk-about-sex-lezzie-kapa-niyo-ba-ang-isat-isa-part-1-of-2/ - at ako young dati na nag message sa iyo dito na si Gf nag tetext habang binababaan ko. Teka, ba't naging kasalanan ko na leche siya at bastos, who prefers to text….

[cont'd] …kaysa mag focus na kinakain ko siya? Ako pa ang mali? Hmppph.
Dahil hindi mo pa nababasa ang part2 ng article na iyan: http://thepoc.net/index.php/lets-talk-about-sex-lezzie-kapa-niyo-ba-ang-isat-isa-part-2-of-2/
At hindi mo rin binasa nang husto ang highlights ng 3 points ko sa part1 din, lalo na ang mga puntong ito:
-- "Ang masarap at masaya sa lesbian sex ay ang kapaan factor: kapain ninyo kung ano ang makakapagpaligaya sa inyo. Be playful but careful sa pagdiskubre kung siya ba ay vaginal o clitoral (or both) ang pag-orgasm."
Do you know how your partner comes ba? Ilang beses mo na siyang napa-come nang ayon sa rhythm niya? Because if you're playing to the tune of her rhythm, then she will have your undivided attention and will put her damn phone down to focus on being eaten out.
-- "Kung hindi mo ma-capture ang target audience mo sa kama ineng, baka kailangang mag-self-reflect sa inyong ginagawa. Mahirap ngang tantiyahin kung may tama o mali ka bang ginagawa dahil marami pa itong factors to consider. At hindi lang ikaw ang kailangang mag-reflect kundi pareho kayo ng partner mo."
Paki-intinding mabuti yung sinabi kong kailangan ding mag-reflect ng partner mo, hindi lang ikaw, dahil dalawa kayong nagse-sex so dapat pareho kayong nagpa-participate sa kalakarang ito. So no, hindi lang ikaw ang mali, k. Baka panahon nang sabihin sa kanya na ibaba niya ang phone niya habang nagse-sex kayo. Kung hindi mo pa ito nire-requeest sa kanya, sorry ka na lang at makikipag-compete ka talaga sa atensiyon ng cellphone. At oo, kung di niyo pa ito napapag-usapan, doon ka may mali.
-- "Sigurado ba kayong kapa niyo na ang isa’t isa? Pero siguro kailangan ding itanong if you are really into your partner, if you find your partner hot, kumbaga erotic enough ba siya for you, na kahit madantay pa lang ang kamay mo sa kamay niya ay kumukulo na sa excitement ang kalamnan mo. "
Panahon na rin para itanong sa partner mo kung natutuwa pa ba siyang kinakain mo siya. Kasi kung natutuwa pa siya, e di hindi na niya kailangang kunin ang ibang bagay na mas nakakapagpatuwa sa kanya (ang kanyang cellphone) habang nagse-sex kayo.
Kaya basahin mong mabuti ang Point number 4: Pag-usapan ninyo ang kalakarang sex ninyo
Lalo na ang excerpt na ito:
"Wala nang tatalo pa sa pag-uusap. Para sa ibang couples, sa conversations nagsisimula ang eroticism ng kanilang foreplay. Kung talagang bukas kayo sa isa’t isa, dapat ay napapag-usapan din ninyo ang inyong likes and dislikes hindi lang sa types of music/movies/books etc. kundi pati na rin sa sex and sexual practices/activities. Hindi nakakahiyang pag-usapan ito dahil sa kasama ito sa isang healthy relationship – ang mapag-usapan ninyo ang maraming bagay na hindi pinag-aawayan. Pero kung hindi ninyo mapag-usapan ang ganitong mga bagay, baka kailangang tingnan ninyo muna ang sarili ninyo kung may unresolved issue kayo sa sarili ninyo na humahadlang sa inyong sexual intimacy with your partner. "
Gets? Good luck!

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Your take on LDR?

I've been in one and kinaya naman. Although hindi pala ang LDR ang makakapag-break ng relasyon namin kundi ang hindi pag-click ng personalities namin.
Due to LDR status, couples are forced to always put their best foot forward kasi in a relationship. Kasi nga you only have limited time and space to interact with one another, minsan hindi mo nakikilala nang husto ang karelasyon mo at minsan magugulat ka na lang sa turn of events o turn of personalities niya sa paglaon.
Never again.
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What camera would you suggest for beginners?

Naku teh this depends on your budget and purpose. If you're a beginning hobbyist then any lightweight DSLR will do, although I've been partial to Canon brands since my DSLR is Canon (7D). If you're going to shoot away while traveling or moving, better get the smaller types na less ang manual controls pero it serves its basic purpose naman, like the Lumix or others like it na small ang body and therefore puwedeng ibulsa type.
Again, depende ito sa budget ha. I got the 7D to use in rakets primarily because of its cinema functions. So far, it has served its purpose as I use it to shoot video documentaries and take pictures din. But I always use my Nikon Coolpix cam as a back-up (for photos only) para may extra lang na gamit in case I don't have much time and space to whip out the bulkier DSLR.
Good luck. Happy shooting!

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What was the last song you sang out loud to?

I'm in a musical/showtunes mood today so I just essayed the role of The Narrator in the Joseph and the Technicolor Dreamcoat this morning while preparing my lunch, singing about Jacob's baker's dozen sons and his favorite hijo's technicolor dreamcoat colors. I swear ang queer lang ng musical na yun hihi one of my faves.

what is the danger of coming out of my closet? if you know what i mean.

I don't exactly know what you mean, so I can't really give a definitive answer here. Danger depends on your life situation, I suppose. If you will be kicked out of the house or disinherited, or if you will be subjected to shock therapy or will be subjected to rape with your own parents' permission to turn you straight, then that indeed is dangerous. And I'm not exaggerating here, as these examples I cited come from real-life narratives of lesbians who came out here in the country (some are my friends). So assess your own personal narrative first and then assess if there is any danger out there lurking for you. I hope that helped.

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