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Do you think that "obeying our parents" means "slaving ourselves to our parents". No right? Can we give our opinions to our parents? I just married and my husband did not talk at all to his mom bcs hes afraid he 's called anak derhaka.

Ur husband must talk to his mom at least asking her about her routine like "have u eaten yet?" But may I ask u? Why ur husband did not talk at all to his mom? Did they fight or something ? Huhu sorry my broken English
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Do you think that "obeying our parents" means "slaving ourselves to our parents". No right? Can we give our opinions to our parents? I just married and my husband did not talk at all to his mom bcs hes afraid he 's called anak derhaka.

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Babe I'm 18 and I'm sure i won't give a proper answer. But here it goes. No of course I don't think that obeying our parents is the same being a slave to them. Certainly not! But to a certain extend, I don't called this slavery all I'll say is that everyone is entitled to have their on opinion and take on life as long as it doesn't go against the values implanted into you by your parents. Your husband needs to talk to his family, you need to make sure he does. Family is family alright. I'm sure his parents didn't abandon him when he was young because they had a conflict of interest.
It is not right , of course we are theirs , prophet Muhammad Sala Allah alaihi wa sallam said that you and your money for your father. They did everything for us . This is the least we can do for them.
Let's make this short and simple. First of all, nope. Second, yes we do can give opinions to our parents. Third, why would your husband be afraid of his mom to call him "anak derhaka"? Married the girl she doesnt want ke...?

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