#introvert

Unfortunately, the subjects I enjoy contemplating or discussing, most people in my life will not consider. This includes politics, theology, physics, music and poetry. I suppose this is one of the reasons I tend to be an introvert who keeps to himself and refrains from expressing my thoughts with disinterested people; and it is probably the reason why I still have an active askfm account. It is here where I get to, within predefined and extremely confined boundaries, get to express myself without worrying whether or not people agree with me or like me. And you might also note that I am somewhat superficial here because I do not want to upset the anonymmous woke activists who lurk in shadows waiting to file bogus reports to the illustrious askfm moderators who couldn't hit the backside of a bull with a basketball if they were standing within an arms length of the bull. 👍👍 /Alex

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❄️✨ Introvert Edition ✨❄️

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₊˚ପ⊹ Kuschelsocken einkaufen gehen
₊˚ପ⊹ Das eigene Zimmer mit Lichterketten und Co. dekorieren
₊˚ପ⊹ Plätzchen mit passenden Motiven backen
₊˚ପ⊹ Auf der Switch cozy Spiele spielen (oder auf dem Laptop/auf irgendeiner x-beliebigen Konsole)
₊˚ପ⊹ Einen kuschligen, warmen Schal häkeln
₊˚ପ⊹ Sich mit einem guten Buch, warmem Tee und Knabberzeug ins Bett verkrümeln
₊˚ପ⊹ Einen Spaziergang durch den Wald unternehmen (besonders bei Schnee sehr schön)
₊˚ପ⊹ Den Frühjahrsputz vorverlegen
₊˚ପ⊹ Sich in ein atmosphärisches Café setzen und Geschichten/Gedichte schreiben/zeichnen
₊˚ପ⊹ Winterliche Rezepte ausprobieren
₊˚ପ⊹Sich mit unzähligen Kissen, Decken und Lampen eine kleine Höhle bauen
₊˚ପ⊹ Sich mit Lego, Puzzles und Bordspielen vergnügen
₊˚ପ⊹ Viel Zeit in einer Bibliothek verbringen
₊˚ପ⊹ Filme und Serien bingen, die Nostalgie wachrufen (Harry Potter, Kevin allein zuhause ...)
₊˚ପ⊹ Süße Postkarten an Freunde versenden
₊˚ପ⊹ Sich mit einer Fitnessmatte und anderen Indoor-Sportgeräten mal so richtig verausgaben (wenn man kein Lebkuchen fressender Oger ist wie ich)

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The key is to learn how to be comfortable in your own presence, and occupied even when alone. I think sometimes people can rely on others to fill a void that they don't feel they can fill themselves. Like being bored if they can't have others around them to make them unbored. Or feeling sad or uncomfortable alone, so needing others to distract them from that with their company.

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There's nothing wrong with needing people to be in your life. Especially if you're extroverted too, you will feel that absence a lot more intensely I think than an introvert. However learning to be comfortable on your own is something I feel everyone should learn. And if you don't feel you can then I think there's room for self improvement. Maybe there's some underlining issues you haven't addressed or tackled yet that have led you to feel that discomfort.

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Taking up hobbies and such are great, as they get you interested in something that you can do by yourself even if others aren't around. So you find ways to entertain yourself when you're bored. And also it helps you to appreciate alone time more too, because you get to do these lil things you enjoy. Also practicing self care, like pampering yourself now and then, or doing stuff like meditation can help you learn to be in the moment.

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I'm reasonably intelligent, ambtious, a smart ass and reasonably extrovert. I like to read, play piano, dick around on the internet and listen to classical music/jazz.

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My type is a girl who is about as intelligent as I am (or smarter), ambitious, a smart ass and not too socially awkward. I would get bored if she was too submissive, not very intelligent or if she wouldn't have a life/career of her own. Slightly introverted, not so much intelligent as incredibly fast at thinking. I love stories and take pride in the fact that I can do my work in dangerous and difficult conditions that break other people. I am also incredibly lazy when I can get away with it.
Me: Introvert and quiet until I warm up to people after we have talked a fair amount. Fairly confident but certainly not fearless. I can spend long periods of time with 1 person but more than a few people drain me. I like dicussing concepts and ideas, and making terrible jokes. Generaly very laid back and calm at most times, though I love competition and get fired up over it easily. Homebody who does not do clubs or rowdy parties but I will go out to a lounge or sports bar for drinks once in a while.
I have found myself to be pretty introverted, to my surprise as I always thought I was otherwise until I really understood what that means. I have spent a lot of my life learning to just take things as they come, a day at a time, and I like to imagine that makes me pretty laid back. I can tolerate most things in other people as long as it's not to do with deliberate ignorance or something they flat out know is not a good idea (ie. complaining about something that they could fix but won't, picking fights with others to try to find some affirmation for their life choices, etc.). I used to be a pretty hard core neck beard, but without a beard, and have been working very hard over the last few years to change that. I can only hope this self improvement has been working, but that's really for me to judge. I like me more, so there's that I guess.
I'm 5'10 (a good height I think). Good looking, manly chin, nice build. I'm pretty even keeled in terms of personality. Wouldn't say that I'm intro or extroverted because I can be both. I'm ok with peace and quiet, sitting in my room browsing reddit. I also have fun going out to parties and hanging out with people. But I do mind my own business, as opposed to some people who seem to have a need to bother and talk to others for no reason. I'm confident, willing to put my money where my mouth is. I don't believe in limiting myself, I want to experience all that the world has to offer. I'm intellectual, and well traveled, so I know what I like. I'm openminded, and appreciate the same in others. I look good in sweats and a v-neck, even better in a suit. A lover and a fighter.

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I am either an ambivert, or an omnivert. I find it hard to tell. For a start, I love socializing. But then I got conditions to that.

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For instance, when I'm with my usual group of friends (only them and no one else present) I'm usually the more dominant one in the group. I can talk, I can crack jokes, I can laugh.

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When I'm with some other groups (my usual group of friends absent), I tone down. I even allow certain people to lead the group/myself. Sometimes there will be this hostile feeling tbh.

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When I'm in the presence of my usual group AND some other groups, I'm balanced. I'll be the dominant one in my group, yet I'm not loud. The "I represent my set" mood kicks in, which also means there's this defensive nature, in the event that other group tries to dominate us, or worse if someone from that group tries to punk one of us, then I'm jumping in.

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So yeah, I don't know what exactly I am, so with the scenarios I've given u, u can have your own take on it. Do add on or ask more if there's anything else.

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An antisocial introverted homebody. I just want to stay home with my dog! But if you’re in my inner circle and you need me, I’ll bend over backwards for you. If you work with me, you’ll never guess I’m an introvert. I’m non confrontational by default but my silence should never be mistaken for acceptance. I’m also a deeply empathetic realist.
I’m pretty damn anti-social, even when at simple places like a park with other strangers there. I’m really unapproachable but will be much nicer than I look to people I haven’t met yet. I’m kinda weak mentally and physically (unlike my mom and my sisters they’re fricking QUEENS). When somebody agitated me so much to the point I can’t take it anymore, I sometimes snap at them (which I wish I could stop), and I behave a little impulsively.
Mr Toad when it comes to my interests, whimsy and mania and all. Very curious and feeling, insecure with romance but very romantic. Told I look intimidating (tall, dark hair, pretty, etc) but I feel like a sweet baby bunny on the inside. I feel masculine but like to play with femininity and express both. I like to be around people and be alone, its all about balance. I have things about myself that I'm working on like shame and anxiety. I love emotional intimacy and stimulating conversations. Smart ass with dad energy and silly, very silly.
I’m extremely loyal to my loved ones. No-drama, just a shoulder to lean on and someone to depend on. Honestly, though, really damn stubborn. Also the kind of person who will never ask for help and prefers to work things out alone.
Chaotic (in a charming way), intellectual, playful,, open-minded, flexible, childlike, knowledgeable, verbose, analytical, disorganised…introverted energy, habits and preferences but , extroverted appearance of social skills (mostly when around introverts, the extroverts see through it quite quickly)…self-reflective, forgetful, self-deprecating, obsessive, hypochondriac, over-thinker, unfocused, impulsive, authentic, honest, book smart but I appear ditzy in social and practical situations. Always curious… always caffeinated…
I’m nice to everyone I meet but I live in Northern England so nice behaviour is seen as suspicious and disingenuous. It takes people a while to realise I’m just…. Nice.
Outgoing, approachable, empathetic, and outwardly-confident. Also I have a fucked up sense of humor most people like.

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I have no idea.
It is probably very small.
I am an introvert and do not like large crowds unless I am on stage with my guitars. And as soon as the music ends I like to pack up my gear and leave as quickly as possible. Partying and socializing is not my cup of tea. It's not that I do not like people, rather I find small talk to be boring and I tend to fall asleep while standing or talking with my eyes closed and mind in it's REM cycle. lol

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The truth is that I grew up with musicians and artists and I am more comfortable in that environment, but I also like hanging with people with certain skill sets like mechanics, tradesmen, engineers, physicists, doctors, poets, etc who are willing to share some of their knowledge and experience with me. I enjoy acquiring knowledge and when I am not actively learning I prefer to be by myself where I can read, practice, write to satisfy my curiosity.

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“I have never seen battles quite as terrifyingly beautiful as the ones I fight when my mind splinters and races, to swallow me into my own madness, again.”
― Nicole Lyons, Hush

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This is a hard one for me. I really like both. I love being close to stuff and if I'm awake at 2am and want a snack there's always some place open. And you don't have to drive too far to go out to restaurants, the grocery store, or shopping. But I also really like the idea of living out in a pasture on a cute little ranch with a garden and not having people around all the time. I think overall I'd lean towards the city though. Maybe just have a good little chunk of land so that it's a little isolated.
I'm a massively introverted person so that in itself might make me sound like I'd prefer living in a place that has less people in it and is less crowded. However counter to that is I'm big on technology to support my way of life so a city will be more suitable for me in that respect. Anyway, being an introvert in a small town with less people around might actually be a disadvantage in itself. I like being anonymous - a face in the crowd, so to speak - and from what I know about small towns and from what Mitsuha (I think she said it somewhere) said people in smaller municipalities tend to be more tight knit than people in large cities. It would be harder to have privacy and stay anonymous. I guess I'll pick living in a city over living in the countryside, considering my interests and way of living. But I can't say some perks of living in the boonies don't interest me either. If a new city life is what you have been longing for, then congratulations to you! Just like Mitsuha who was able to make it to Tokyo in the end (even though it was kind of by an unexpected force).

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Well, this topic post and comments look like people prefer city life over countryside life. In fact both sides have different good stuff and bad stuff. I think a big move from one side to another side is not an easy job and it can take some time to get used to a new life. Living a happy life is the most important thing. I remember the precious times when I lived in countryside I used to read books on my way to school by train, and I often enjoyed looking out of the window during my 40-minutes long train trip. I think by the change of four seasons, the shapes and the colors of the sky have been seen differently during these three high school years of mine, and all these can be connected to my current works. Now, the landscape, the scenery, and the emotions in the past, become a powerful tool for me to try to make something when I have grown up to my adulthood.

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Već sam odgovorila na većinu pitanja, ali evo:
1. Ne dajem tu informaciju.
2. Živim u Nišu.
3. Joka, Jokica...
4. 18.10.
5. Strejt sam.
6. 160 cm, za kg nisam sigurna.
7. Nek bude giros, ali nemam u suštini.
8. Ne pijem alkohol, ovako volim kafu i ledeni čaj od breskve.
9. Nisam sigurna da razumem?
10. Nemam baš (valjda).
11. Ovaj nalog sam skroz bez veze napravila, nisam čak ni planirala. Odvlači mi pažnju i ubija monotoniju, a trenutno mi dosta znači to. 😄
12. Nije baš definisano.
13. Hmm, rekla bih crtanje, ali zapravo crtam jednom u sto godina. Mogla bih tome da se posvetim.
14. Mnogi kažu crtanje, ali kao što rekoh, jako retko to radim.
15. Nemam.
16. Ne znam koliko će bilo kome da bude zanimljivo, ali reći ću par stvari koje mi prvo padnu na pamet - introvert sam i volim da imam mali krug bliskih ljudi, obožavam životinje i uvek stanem da ih pomazim na ulici ili im kupim nešto da jedu, san mi je da posetim što više zemalja i da često putujem, studiram elektrotehniku i volela bih da se posvetim poslu i budem dobra u njemu (a samim tim i ponosna na sebe), volim da kuvam, obožavam da šetam i obično izlazim sama... Da ne dužim više.

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