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Bila jumpa org aku rasa takut . Aku rasa malu dengan diri sendiri . Bila nmpak strangers terutama lelaki aku jadi gelabah pastu mula lah aku berpeluh . Classmates lelaki aku ckp aku sombong . Is it normal or should i changed ?

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Lol perangai you sejibik mcm I masa kecik dulu 😂..Tp lepas I dh masuk asrama, I byk buat aktiviti yg byk bergaul, kena cakap dpn org ramai and sedikit sebanyak perasaan malu tu hilang. Tapi I still masih malu lagi la untuk berbual dengan lelaki, duduk rapat2 tanpa sebab.
So kat sini, malu tu cerminan maruah perempuan. Mesti ada supaya diri tu tak nampak murah di mata lelaki. Tapi malu biar bertempat ye dear.. Jgn disebabkan malu you jadi susah nak belajar lagi2 bila dh kerja nanti 😊
I dulu pun macam tu, masa sekolah, but.. As I grow older (takde la old sangat) eventually I try to overcome my fears, and things get better. You have to change tho, seriously, get out of your shell, nanti kerja ke group assignment ke, susah la. Be open, but that doesn't mean takyah jaga batas :) you can do this!
Saya yakin pasti ada sebab yang membuatkan awak gelabah tak menentu bila dengan strangers. Do you wanna share with me? 😊
Sombong itu janganlah sombong yang membuatkan orang sekeliling tidak selesa. Instead of sombong, you should be firm with them. Jangan tunjukkan diri awak itu mudah untuk diperkecilkan atau dibuat sesuka hati. That's it, girl.
Instead of saying that it isn't normal, I'd prefer to say that it's not good for you, dear. To be honest, your characteristics show that you have low self esteem. You should be confident in crowds. Confident here doesn't mean you have to act cocky and full of yourself, it basically means you know how to deal with your surrounding and critical situations.

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