No. That's a very wrong concept. This is more of a cultural thing than what Islam preaches. I had the same concerns and asked about it from a very learned person. They said that as Allah swt mentions in the Quran ( don't mind me I don't remember the verses but mafoom yad hai) that apni jaan pr zulm krna gunnah hai or bht bara gunnah hai. That torture can be in any form whether it's physical or mental. And just like you will be questioned by Allah SWT regarding why you did that to yourself, isi trha if you're going through abuse EVEN if it's your PARENTS you're allowed to distance yourself from them. Han disrespect na krein unhy but chup krk maintaining your distance is different and you're supposed to do that because jab ap khudi mentally sane nahi honge to how will you manage to obey Allah SWT in other ways? There is nothing wrong with that and believe me Allah knows your intentions he knows your actions and what's in your heart and why you're doing it. Ap jitna sabar kr rhe hain iska bhi ajar mile ga Allah se lekin apse sawal hoga k chahe apne khud pr zulm kia ya kisi orko krne dia jab k you had the power to stop it such as in your case maintaining distance.

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