@AppropriateYak

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i want him back but he hasn't texted me since he told me he found out. i didn't ever tell him because i was ashamed of it and wanted to forget it. and he only found out because he went through my messages with my friend. is he over reacting? i just want a guys perspective

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this is a woman's perspective: it really depends on what you didn't tell him. people generally don't like being lied to or having information withheld from them, especially in relationships where there's supposed to be a very high level of trust and honesty. it's understandable that he'd be upset if you kept something important from him.
if someone did that to me, I'd wonder why they didn't trust me enough when I'm supposed to be the person they trust the most in the world. it would make our relationship feel like it was never real to begin with.

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