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Do u think l wl find my father

What is your story with your father? Why are you in the position where you are having to look for him? I hope to hear back from you.

My parents divorced when i was a baby and i am 14 now my real dad and step mom are trying to guilt me into hating my real mom and step dad and i am being told that i am not needed at my real dads. What do I do? I mean Real dad is lying about step dad and i look to step dad for advice on guy stuff. I

I am glad that you've had your step dad in your life and that you've been able to go to him for advice on guy stuff. That is a real gift and he should be commended for it. Likewise, your dad and step mom should not be trying to make you feel guilty. You are free to love and seek advice from both of your parents, and your step-parents if you so choose. Have you talked to your dad about this and how it making you feel? In what ways do they try to guilt you?

my mom just found out that my dad is cheating on her. again. and its like 100000 times he did it. and now,i feel like maybe it is the right thing for them to get divorced. idk, my mom have been so lost for the pas few years.she didnt even go to church anymore.idk how to response to this situation

I am so sorry to hear about the decisions your dad has made. I know it must be tough on you and your mom. It's up to your mom and dad to decide what they are going to do, but I want to let you know that we are here to help you however we can as you deal with the repercussions of whatever they decide.

Hi, I am not sure if I posted something, because my message disappeared suddenly, but I still wanted to put my e-mail adress in here so you could contact me. I am very relieved to have written everything down. I was the Dutch girl, just so you know which message I sent. Thanks for listening, Marisk

Marsick, I didn't get your original message. If you'd like to e-mail me, you can at wayne@iamachildofdivorce.com.

My mom and dad are not talking when they do they fight. I cry every time they fight alot. I will never beable tobe a normal teenage gal age14 if they get a divorse! my mom is supposed to go on a business trip with him to Florida but she said she doesn't want to go and I heard them talk about divorce

That's a tough situation to be in. Unfortunately, there isn't much you can do about it. Let your parents know how you feel and how it makes you feel when they are fighting. Hopefully they can get some help and work things out without getting a divorce. But, please know that, no matter what happens with your parents, you can still have a normal life. It might look like the life you have right now, but you will adjust eventually (even though it might not seem like it at first). Let me know how things go.

my parrents are not talking but when they do they fight. Every time they fight I hystaricaly cry.

I am sorry to hear what you're going through. It is tough to listen to your parents fighting, and I know it must b hurting you. I would suggest that you talk to them (either together or separately) to let them know that you've heard them fighting and how it makes you feel. You can't make them not fight, but you can ask them not to do it while you're around. I hope this helps. Let me know how it goes!

I completed the registration for the teen support group, but no one has contacted me yet. why?

Sorry. We are currently in the process of reworking the groups, and the registration process. Someone should contact you soon to let you know about the changes and what steps to take next.

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