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what would you do if you was paying child support for a kid you found out that ain’t even yours ? How would you feel ? What would you do in that situation?

If I was a male. I will continue to pay child support and take care of the child. I’m all they know. They have no other dad. I’m still their dad. DNA doesn’t make you a daddy. I’ve watched a dog give birth. That doesn’t make it a mother. DNA shouldn’t stop a real man from taking care of His Child. He may have not made that child, but that child is his. That child loves him and calls him daddy. When these males actually stop taking care of their kid and having any sort of contact with them. He didn’t want to do it in the first place. He was just doing it, because he was “forced” to. He should want to do it, because that’s his child and he wants his kid to be happy and healthy. He actually loves His Child. That kid will be extremely upset if he just stops. Unfortunately most guys don’t think like that. The kid has to suffer for what? The child will be wondering why their dad doesn’t love them anymore. Especially if he do have a biological child by that same female. He completely ignores one child and only pays attention to the one that’s biologically his. That kid will of course be jealous and may even start acting out. Some go too far. He may even kill or, harm or try to kill, or harm the other child out of jealousy. I actually knew a mom of a child that did that. These guys don’t understand the impact that has on a poor innocent child. It’s not the child’s fault that their mom is a whore. If any dude bales out on a kid just because the child isn’t biologically his. That tells me he was a coward, unloving, selfish punk to begin with. People are always wondering why these kids act like they act. Because grown ups act like immature idiots. That’s why.
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Do I cherish the child, is the child at fault for whatever they are going through somehow? Does the child depend on my money to survive? I would prioritise the child, regardless of whether they're "mine" or not. It is still as valuable as any other human life.
That doesn't mean I will simply let myself be fucked but I won't magically stop providing for them if they actually need it for things like that if I can still manage to give them money. I'd only further ensure though that money goes to the child directly, depending their age and family circumstances, etc. If the actual parent(s) are bad custodians and I love the child, I will do whatever possible to claim custody myself and/or to secure place for the child's say on the matter.
I dont think that I would pay for their children support anymore if they weren't mine, I might still care about them though and wish them the best in life
well, if I was paying an never really saw the kid from birth, I'd fight it but if the kid was older and this child only knew me as their father, I'd pay it and treat the child as my own. it would hurt my feelings knowing that but would hurt the kid's worse if I dumped it

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