Would you rather be at the beach or in the mountains?
The Mountains.
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Wow, thanks for taking all this time out to answer all of my questions lol You are the real deal RhemaJoy. So, what's next for you in relationships? Do u feel like you and your mate will have a marriage/ relationship ministry together? I'm sure the wisdom doesn't stop once he finds you.
Are you the same one who asked why I/m so hard to impress and about my reactions while with you? You asked all these questions?
Nothing is next. I'm all good.. I'm sure when or if he comes along, ministry in some way will be involved.
Nothing is next. I'm all good.. I'm sure when or if he comes along, ministry in some way will be involved.
What church do you go to? Are there any churches in the DMV you recommend?
I'm currently apart of the viewing audience of Elevation Church. I'm online majority of the time but I visit new churches from time to time. Ahhh, there are tons of churches. First Baptist Church of Glendarden, Spirit of Faith, Destiny Harvest, Life Church, DC Metro Church, Grace Covenant...just a few I'm more familiar with.
Since you are turning everyone down lol, do you have any fine, saved sisters you would recommend for your male friends lol. No seriously. Do you match people up that you think would be a good match? Feel free to let your bro's in Christ know...of course checking with your sisters first 😄
Crackin' up. I'm not in the match-making business but I mean...If you ever see me and my girls out and you find one you're interested in, go for it. You might win! Lol.
believe it or not most of not all your guy friends want to be in a relationship with you (or could see themselves with you). You should investigate why. I bet all they'll all name the same reasons, qualities, traits you carry. Would you do that, hit them up and ask what they see in you?
I hear you. I wouldn't hit them up and ask them because while I'm thoroughly flattered by what they see in me, I'm not interested in opening those doors and lines of communication with guys I only see as my friends. I treasure our friendships and I'd prefer to keep them that way; especially if I don't see myself with them.
Do you have any idea who is asking you all these questions??? Lol
Nope. They're anonymous. Lol.
What was the most meaningful thing a guy has expressed to you?
Expressed? ahhhh, that's a tough one. Um.. I'd say it's when a guy once expressed to me that he was not going to date or pursue me -at least at the time- because he wasn't in a position to be what I needed in a man in order to sustain my wait. It was painful but super honest and I appreciated that protection.
Are there any male friends that have a chance to get out of the friend zone? And hooooooooow? Lol
well... all the males I'm involved with period are in the friend zone; even the new ones I meet so I guess...there's always a chance because they're ALL in the zone. LOL. How? Guess I'd have to see you past "bro". Lol.
Do u kiss on the first date? And would you be open to being in a relationship where the guy doesn't want to kiss you until his wedding day?
I don't kiss on the first date... and I think I'd be open to it... I think. Lol.
What do you say to a guy who says that God showed him that you are to be his wife? Is the guy supposed to wait for God to reveal that to you or make his move. (That "God said" is so common now says it seems)
"God said" can get you hemmed up! LOL. But no, honestly...
I'd be straight up; If heard the "ok" from God on it, I'm game. Of course with wisdom, counsel, time...all that good stuff. If I hear nothing from God, I'm not game.
The phrase "God said" is common, yes, but the conviction, truth and "God consent" behind it isn't very common. Many people say it out of emotion, a high on love of sorts, but don't really take the time out to seek God on whether it's a move of God or a move of well...themselves. A guy is most certainly supposed to wait on God, not really to reveal it to you as a woman but to him as a man and make the move when God says it's time to. I've been raised on the knowledge that it is the guy's role to initiate that sort of discussion but it should never be a surprise to the woman he is telling it to or pursuing. This goes into him waiting on God to make the move at the right time. He should let God deal with her and focus solely on what God wants and tells HIM to do. There's so much more to it...but I don't have the space. Lol.
I believe that when anyone tells you anything about what God said regarding YOUR life, it shouldn't be a surprise. God wouldn't tell my "to be" husband to share that with me and keep me out of the loop or without any ounce of expectation of that life change/message. It should be confirmation. In my opinion.
I'd be straight up; If heard the "ok" from God on it, I'm game. Of course with wisdom, counsel, time...all that good stuff. If I hear nothing from God, I'm not game.
The phrase "God said" is common, yes, but the conviction, truth and "God consent" behind it isn't very common. Many people say it out of emotion, a high on love of sorts, but don't really take the time out to seek God on whether it's a move of God or a move of well...themselves. A guy is most certainly supposed to wait on God, not really to reveal it to you as a woman but to him as a man and make the move when God says it's time to. I've been raised on the knowledge that it is the guy's role to initiate that sort of discussion but it should never be a surprise to the woman he is telling it to or pursuing. This goes into him waiting on God to make the move at the right time. He should let God deal with her and focus solely on what God wants and tells HIM to do. There's so much more to it...but I don't have the space. Lol.
I believe that when anyone tells you anything about what God said regarding YOUR life, it shouldn't be a surprise. God wouldn't tell my "to be" husband to share that with me and keep me out of the loop or without any ounce of expectation of that life change/message. It should be confirmation. In my opinion.
Are there any guys interested in you that you feel the same way? Or are you just waiting on one guy to get his focus on you and not paying attention to the others?
At this point...neither. No one in particular anymore and no one I already know is interested. I'm just tryna get to bible study regularly and write these blogs. Lol.