Zruri nai ha...ap kisi ko pasand krty ho yaa pyaar krty ho..zruri nai ha k wo bhi apko pasand kry ya pyaar kry...ap pyar kren usay...usay bata bhi dein beshak lkin ap badly ma ya mat expect kren k wo bhi apko pyaar kry ya pasand kry...or ajkal udhar banda usi ko deta ha jiska usay pata ho k wo wapis kry ga...lkin shaid esa nai hona chahiye kabhi kabi...bht dafa apko agly ki majboori pata hoti ha...agr nai bhi pata tw ap pata kr skty han...ap ko Allah pak ne agr diya ha itna tw ap zrur udhaar dein...us sa wapsi ka waqt lein...or agr apko pata ha k wo nai kr skta wapis abhi tw aap apna dil bara kren or usko kahen k bhai/behen jab ap k pas hon tb ap de dena...or agrr Allah ne bht taufeeq di ha tw dil ma irada bhi kren k agr wapis mil gaye tw theek or agr wo wapis nahi kr paya,tw Allah sa uske bajae Ajar/naiki ki umeed rakhen or us ko muaaf kr dein...K Allah k diye hue maal ma sa hi ap ne usko diye thay...