I found out my husband has 4 accounts that my name is not on. He also will not add my name. We so have a joint account but there is rarely enough money to cover bills. I don't want to give ultimatums but the multiple accounts make me think he doesn't see forever with me. I' said this but no change
What did he say when you asked about the other accounts and why he won't add you??
Ultimatums aren't the way to solve problems. If you're leaving, go. But the "or else" approach just begs someone to call your bluff.
Ultimatums aren't the way to solve problems. If you're leaving, go. But the "or else" approach just begs someone to call your bluff.