I have to disagree with you on the "meeting the fam" means nothing to men as a general rule. Maybe *some* men it means nothing. But most men don't let any ol girl meet their mama. Meeting fam is him SHOWING he is serious about the girl in more cases. If you're 1yr+ in & haven't met fam s'things up.
I completely disagree. And yes, a lot of men introduce a lot of women to this mothers and it means absolutely nothing. Does it mean something to a few? Perhaps. But you can't go by whether or not you've met mom to determine whether a man really likes you, is serious, or isn't.
Real talk: they know the mixed signal it sends to a woman and they will sometimes do it to make her think she's more important than she is. Mom doesn't matter as much as we like to think. If she likes you, great. If she doesn't, great. (It does matter if the two of you can get along well enough not to cause conflict, because a peaceful woman is high up on the list of desires.) bottomlime: You're not dating Mom though. You're dating HIM.
I'm not just pulling that from anywhere. I've interviewed thousands of men about these subjects, and this one in particular. I'm not saying what I think they think. I'm going by what they say they think and regurgitating it. I will always take the opinion of what men say they think over what women think they do or should.
It's like guessing how much money he has by how fresh he dresses. You know how many dudes with money just do the basics? You know how many broke dudes floss?
It means nothing. Sorry. I know this is jarring for some to hear. Just trying to keep you from being okey doked or thinking there's an issue when there isn't one.
Real talk: they know the mixed signal it sends to a woman and they will sometimes do it to make her think she's more important than she is. Mom doesn't matter as much as we like to think. If she likes you, great. If she doesn't, great. (It does matter if the two of you can get along well enough not to cause conflict, because a peaceful woman is high up on the list of desires.) bottomlime: You're not dating Mom though. You're dating HIM.
I'm not just pulling that from anywhere. I've interviewed thousands of men about these subjects, and this one in particular. I'm not saying what I think they think. I'm going by what they say they think and regurgitating it. I will always take the opinion of what men say they think over what women think they do or should.
It's like guessing how much money he has by how fresh he dresses. You know how many dudes with money just do the basics? You know how many broke dudes floss?
It means nothing. Sorry. I know this is jarring for some to hear. Just trying to keep you from being okey doked or thinking there's an issue when there isn't one.