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What would you go for in a guy? Personality or their looks?

Both! Go ahead and call me a shallow for admitting this, but deep down you know there's truth to it. attraction to a person at first is often based on looks, whether this person to you is a solid 10 or just decent looking. For some 10's though, their personality brings them down to maybe like a 3. For some okay looking people, their personality makes them much more attractive. There's gotta be a balance of the two to suit your individual preferences. Of course there are amazing hot people, and shitty not-so-hot people too. Lucky for everyone though, every person has their own ideal so in the end nobody gets left out! :)

What would you change in this World?

The kinds of atrocious things girls do for guys/to get a guy/to make themselves seem more appealing to the opposite sex. Do what YOU want, for YOURSELF, because how are people genuinely going to like you if you're not being genuine yourself? What's gonna happen if you suddenly stop doing those things? If he's attracted to the you that rolls over and does what HE wants, or the you that takes part in things you normally wouldn't because you think that makes you more desirable, then you're going to get your ass dumped. Respect yourself and be real first and foremost, and if the guy you want doesn't like you for NOT doing those things, then he can go fuck himself. :) you don't need that kind of negativity honey ✌️

Thoughts on nudes?

Do what you want right?
... BUT, keep in mind the possible consequences. You might trust the person at the time but how about when you aren't on good terms? Your naked ass could be used as revenge, for blackmail, or just shown to the entire population in your area. So again, do what ever you want. I'm not gonna judge, not my place at all. Just consider that ^^

If you could go back in time to talk to yourself, what would you say?

"Don't cut your hair"
"Do whatever the hell you want because you can"
"F*** their opinion"
"Speak your mind or you'll miss out"
"If sassy is an option, always choose sassy"
"That's going to be a colossal waste of time. Don't go there"
"Your happiness stems from yourself"
"There are some crazy bitches out there. Watch out"
"Go to bed on time or you'll feel like punching yourself in the face"

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