If you had to give someone lessons, what skill would you teach?
THE SKILL TO READ SITUATIONS.
I am overly irritated by the lack of sensitiveness people these days often do. I know for a fact that this certain skill isn't written in books or taught in classes; but some people should start paying attention to situations from different aspects such as:
1. People's emotions
2. The things they would like to say
3. The things they think they heard
4. Where the situation take place.
Many of modern day individuals think that they could get whatever they can get their hands on by doing simply only what they want and be proud about it. Many don't realise that situations where other people are involved can affect how people will think about them. I'm not stating that you should care of what other people think about you; I am clearly stating that we should be cautious and fully aware of those we want in our lives. (As in not everyone).
Putting ourselves as a priority is important- as long as it doesn't offend those we need around us. Situations where an unwritten code of ethics apply, needs cooperation between one person and another.
ex: "Holy shit I can't believe I got that one right!" is not an an expectable answer for a friend that just realised she got the answer to an essay wrong. "I'm sure it won't end up as bad as you think" is more expectable.
Making other people feel better isn't always lame, you guys. You don't have to be cool all the time.
I can't even think of what else to type, there's shitloads of sentences in my head. Butts
I am overly irritated by the lack of sensitiveness people these days often do. I know for a fact that this certain skill isn't written in books or taught in classes; but some people should start paying attention to situations from different aspects such as:
1. People's emotions
2. The things they would like to say
3. The things they think they heard
4. Where the situation take place.
Many of modern day individuals think that they could get whatever they can get their hands on by doing simply only what they want and be proud about it. Many don't realise that situations where other people are involved can affect how people will think about them. I'm not stating that you should care of what other people think about you; I am clearly stating that we should be cautious and fully aware of those we want in our lives. (As in not everyone).
Putting ourselves as a priority is important- as long as it doesn't offend those we need around us. Situations where an unwritten code of ethics apply, needs cooperation between one person and another.
ex: "Holy shit I can't believe I got that one right!" is not an an expectable answer for a friend that just realised she got the answer to an essay wrong. "I'm sure it won't end up as bad as you think" is more expectable.
Making other people feel better isn't always lame, you guys. You don't have to be cool all the time.
I can't even think of what else to type, there's shitloads of sentences in my head. Butts
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