How do you mention that you're taken when talking to guys who seem interested in you?
if they're straight up forward and hitting its nice to just say "just so you know, im in a relationship" but i dont throw it around often unless someone makes me uncomfortable bc i dont want to be one of those people
How do u let yourself be vulnerable again to someone new after a heartbreak (specially ur first hearbreak) :<
im a pisces its what i do
Do you believe in true love/ soulmates? I feel like I met mine when I was 14 and still in love with him and will be forever lol.. It's been 10 years since we were together. Thinking of reaching out but we haven't been in contact for over 5 years.
-I've tried to move on consciously but he is in my dreams sometimes without me thinking of him and I've had relationships with others... I feel like I look for him in other people. Very strange special connection.hi sorry for the late reply but I think there's a good chance you’re building this old first love up in your head. you two don’t know each other anymore, in all honesty. but if you feel that this connections is actually real, why not reach out to them? see who they are now? I do believe in true love and soulmates but I don’t think that we should hang on to those ideas so much that we romanticize our pasts.there are plenty of people to meet in this world who can love you in ways that you always wanted and ways that you have never imagined. I think that we do grow strong and strange connections with people but a relationship will run its course and leave the connection with you. maybe this person was a soulmate for your child heart. I wrote a poem about this years ago:“i think that when a heart breaks it begins to shed its layers. slowly but surely, the heart molts. pieces fall away and it aches and becomes something new. i think you were the soul mate of my child heart, my dreaming heart. and the heart i have now does not know you but it thanks you for coming and going the way that you did, for allowing this heart to become a soft and strong one. it thanks you for leaving, for allowing someone to love me better.” maybe you need to release this connection and allow yourself to be loved as you are now, not as who you were when you were a teenager. you have grown into many people since you were 14.
do you think that telling somebody your romantic feelings for them could be seen / considered as a selfish act? why or why not?
bruh why does this read like some prompt an English teacher in a crisis about being single on valentines days gave out to their students
Yo you're v emotionally intelligent
ty x
I really admire the way you handle people’s opinions about you, i wish i was like that. what is something i can say to myself that will stop me from always thinking abt what other people think of me? 🥺
I don’t really “say” anything to myself, I just think about the context and the situation & also I tend to think that most people speak from their insecurities rather than an actual grip on the situation. so it’s pretty rare that I’ll care about the opinion of someone I don’t respect as there’s no reason for me to care
What's your birthday?
why? so you can look up my natal chart? so you can figure out my weaknesses? so you can destroy me?
nah, nothing. whatever was meant for me remained. whatever was not meant for me left 🤷🏻♀️
I dont like reading about you loving or missing someone i want you to be alone just like me
welcome to the world of egotism
Chỉ muốn nói là chị là một người rất cuốn hút. Cho dù e còn chưa biết chị sn bao nhiêu.
aww ty em xD chị 99 nha~
Do you think you’re a fucked-up person?
yes
Does having a lot of unread books around make you stressed? I never used to care. But for some reason, it just started to give me a lot of anxiety recently :(
not at all. I don't enjoy reading books quickly, although i don't read slow, a normal moderate pace. but, I have no issue with a growing collection. depends how you look at it, I suppose. reading and collecting and buying books should always be a pleasure, never a chore or stressful. if you'd like to read more, try to carve out time. and if it's this much of a stressful situation, don't buy any for sometime until you read an amount you are satisfied with
I see your Pisces symbol and also see we have neglected to ask you ant your opinion on Pisces. I personally Hate that we're portrayed as drug abusers and cotton candy soft fairies. Bad stereotype
i’ve never heard of that stereotype before lol.. we’re alright, we’re usually surface level nice to everyone. which isn’t to say that we can’t be nice genuinely, just that like we definitely hide part of ourselves away from most people. we have a tendency to have a martyr complex, i think. taking responsibility for things is something that we have a hard time with. we’re creative, daydreamers. a natural tendency towards creative ventures. i think that for those who we do let in we’re very loyal. and we’re very willing to listen to other people. also, good at manipulating situations to get what we want, which isn’t necessarily good or bad, but we know how people’s emotions work and we sometimes use that to our advantage when maybe it would be best to not do so. a lot of this is projection lmao
What do u say to someone u love n care about but need to break up with because u don’t want the same things in the future?? they talk about settling down n wanting to marry u someday and u don’t even know what u want for yourself? im confused so im asking this to a few other people so its ok if u do
-dont answer this question. thank you btwyou just say exactly that. like, if someone loves you and you’re asking to part ways from them, there’s no way what you say will make that hurt any less. but also, it’s important that you look out for yourself and your own journey- if your goals aren’t aligned, if what you want from life isn’t the same, then i don’t think it’s fair in the long term for either of you. idk… like love isn’t the only thing that makes two people compatible, you also need to have similar life plans, and priorities, i think, because otherwise at least one partner will become embittered. just tell them what you told me, there’s no easy way out of it, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it.