That's right. After a four year relationship it will take a fair amount of time but if you make the choice to move on then you can most certainly do it! X
Well that's up to you. Only you know your feelings towards him, if you feel like he's worth waiting for and you really love him then of course you'd wait and wouldn't even think about it, but the fact that you've asked me this question makes me feel like you should move on. Of course that's a decision only you can make though. Your the one that knows the relationship best and no one can make that decision for you. Trust yourself that you'll make the right decision and give yourself time to think about it X
It's your right to let him know if he makes a move on you that you've moved on. If he tries to ask you out or anything like that make it clear that you now don't share the same feelings. He had his chance and you shouldn't feel bad for saying no if he tries to make a move. Just say exactly how you feel in a polite way and the rest is up to him. X
You're welcome hope I helped X
Possibly! It seems he cares about you, but the only person that will ever know what he's truly feeling and thinking is him. You're not a mind reader so you can't be certain buy it you and him are meant to be together then you will be with time! X
Just talk to him. By doing that you'll soon find if there's chemistry between you and I know it might be hard to talk to him because of nerves and things like that but remember he's a human just like you. Trust yourself and your conversational abilities and see what comes out of it X
You don't need to choose between them. You just can't hang out with them at the same time, that's all.
In the end it's their issues they need to resolve. It's between them and you shouldn't resolve their issues for them. If say one of these friends are at your house just don't invite the other friend over while she's there.
You can spend quality time with both, just not both of them together which is s shame but they obviously just can't get along and that's not your fault or your problem to deal with. X
If it's meant to be then it will be. Just give it time and it will happen of its supposed to and of it doesn't then don't be disheartened, it wasn't meant to be. You're young and have the rest of your life for boys. Relationships are supposed to form naturally so don't force anything and just see what happens. A relationship with this boy may some out of it or it might not and you just keep on waiting X
You're honesty awesome! X
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