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Laci Green

What's your opinion about white people using the n-word? Would it make you feel uncomfortable if a white friend said it & what would you do/say to them about it? What did you think about the bill maher situation and the discussion he had with ice cube?

people can say whatever words they want. but i think it should be pretty obvious by now to any reasonable human that using the n word is a racially charged and shitty thing to do. it's just not necessary in any context i can think of, other than to flip the bird at the perceived elitism of PC culture or to poc. there's this element of "HEE HEE I SAID IT!" wow how edgy. it's idiotic. this is one of the backlash effects of pc language in general unfortunately. the n word is one of my personal hard lines because it is extremely loaded historically and degrading. just an ugly word all round. i have had friends who used it and we've talked about it. some stopped using it.
i havent seen the maher segment.
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Describe your perfect first date.

very first date - just coffee or a bar in case i'm not feeling it. but perfect date...probably hiking then getting something yummy after :)

In your new vid, you say you prefer arguments that are backed by science + strong study designs, but this fails to address ways in which science ignores + pathologizes certain groups. Research funding is so skewed, + will be even moreso under Trump! Lived experiences shouldn't be discounted, IMO.

sure, i don't think anybody is saying personal experience should be discounted. but "because i said so" isn't an argument.

In your video, you said animals don't have "men" and "women" implying they are gender terms if I'm not mistaken? If gender is about masculinity and femininity, that means being a man or woman is dependent on adhering to those behaviors. Therefore there's no such thing as a "masculine woman".

another possible interpretation: it could also mean that being a man or woman is *independent* of adhering to masc/fem behaviors.

Do you lean right on any issues? & if so, which?

i'd need a pretty thorough definition of "left" and "right" before i could answer. the terms seem to have lost their meaning.

I agree, the gender of a person is independent of their masculinity and femininity. If that's the case, then gender can't be based off gender roles/stereotypes

the SEX of a person is independent of masculinity/femininity. not gender.

Your most recent video showed me something: A problem with the current debate scheme is the format itself. A lot of it is done online on twitter and sites like that where there's a character limit. As a result, people can't say everything they need to or must sacrifice important info for space.

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definitely. the platforms are super flawed. but they aren't goin away lol.

I see the term as self-identifying, so I do not believe you have to be a Black woman to be a womanist. From what authority does that requirement stem?

eh, just my feeling. it's by and for woc. not my place or space.

God dammit laci, can you stop giving out good advice. Truth be told, I'm fucking faded. But you are awesome. Keep your head up high. We're here for you.

thx boo. take a hit for me. ?

I was hoping to get some advice. I had a falling out with my BF during the election, she called me a lot of hurtful names because I voted Trump. She messaged me last night apologizing and saying she regretted the things she said. Should I try to repair the friendship? I'm afraid of another fall out.

it's up to you obviously, but i would try! friendships are precious and life is short.

I just wanted to thank you for your YT videos (huge fan from many years). I've learned a lot about safe sex and other stuff. I'm from Colombia (in South America), your work can cross borders! Thanks again :D

you're welcome babe! hugs from cali.

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