wdyt abt love?
Not going to answer that but for a replacement i have a story.
I once had a boyfriend whose ex still ((madly)) in love with him eventough we’ve been in a relationship for a while. His ex was everybody’s favorite, her circle was huge and yes everyone loves her. When me & my ex start dating everybody including my own friends(yg temennya dia juga) against us banget. Disity gue shock sih maksudnya they’re my friends, kalo lo gak mendukung at least netral gak sih gausah pake acara taking sides gitu.
I knooww society has their own reason why they’re against us, katanya i was “snatching” her boyfriend at that time padahal mah, woi??? Timing nya memang gak tepat sih pada saat itu for telling the world that we’re together tapi kalo gue gak ngerasa melakukan kesalahan apa2 i don’t think i need to cover up this relationship things.
Long story short dengan banyaknya orang yg gasuka sm gue dan hubungan gue, i’m feeling so insecure. Gak tenang, gak nyaman, often feeling intimidated by the society’s perspective dan disitu bikin mental gue ancur parah. It makes me feel im not good enough, gue jahat, gue bukan org baik & itu semua krn orang2 lebih percaya sama cerita2 yg di ‘blow up’ sama his ex ke banyak pihak, sedangkan mereka gatau cerita sebenernya gimana.
Jadi lah gue mengalami itu selama berbulan2, bahkan to be honest smp sekarang mungkin pandangan orang2 ke gue gaakan sama lagi walaupun it was happened yearsss ago.
Dulu sih gue stress banget ya mikirin ginian tp sekarang kalo dipikir2 kenapa sih kita harus dengerin omongan orang dan ngejadiin omongan orang itu indikator diri kita baik/engga? Because it’s totally wrong. Society’s perspective shouldn’t affect us especially when we know that we didn’t do anything wrong.
Kalo inget2 rasanya pengen gw toyor diri gw sendiri bertahun2 yg lalu karena pernah mikir kayak gini. Tapi di satu sisi gue sadar kalo aja gue gapernah ngalamin hal kayak gini mungkin gue gaakan pernah belajar dan akhirnya ngerti hehehehe
I once had a boyfriend whose ex still ((madly)) in love with him eventough we’ve been in a relationship for a while. His ex was everybody’s favorite, her circle was huge and yes everyone loves her. When me & my ex start dating everybody including my own friends(yg temennya dia juga) against us banget. Disity gue shock sih maksudnya they’re my friends, kalo lo gak mendukung at least netral gak sih gausah pake acara taking sides gitu.
I knooww society has their own reason why they’re against us, katanya i was “snatching” her boyfriend at that time padahal mah, woi??? Timing nya memang gak tepat sih pada saat itu for telling the world that we’re together tapi kalo gue gak ngerasa melakukan kesalahan apa2 i don’t think i need to cover up this relationship things.
Long story short dengan banyaknya orang yg gasuka sm gue dan hubungan gue, i’m feeling so insecure. Gak tenang, gak nyaman, often feeling intimidated by the society’s perspective dan disitu bikin mental gue ancur parah. It makes me feel im not good enough, gue jahat, gue bukan org baik & itu semua krn orang2 lebih percaya sama cerita2 yg di ‘blow up’ sama his ex ke banyak pihak, sedangkan mereka gatau cerita sebenernya gimana.
Jadi lah gue mengalami itu selama berbulan2, bahkan to be honest smp sekarang mungkin pandangan orang2 ke gue gaakan sama lagi walaupun it was happened yearsss ago.
Dulu sih gue stress banget ya mikirin ginian tp sekarang kalo dipikir2 kenapa sih kita harus dengerin omongan orang dan ngejadiin omongan orang itu indikator diri kita baik/engga? Because it’s totally wrong. Society’s perspective shouldn’t affect us especially when we know that we didn’t do anything wrong.
Kalo inget2 rasanya pengen gw toyor diri gw sendiri bertahun2 yg lalu karena pernah mikir kayak gini. Tapi di satu sisi gue sadar kalo aja gue gapernah ngalamin hal kayak gini mungkin gue gaakan pernah belajar dan akhirnya ngerti hehehehe
