Recently my grandmother told me if I was looking to get married I should tell her apparently she has someone she thinks I would like. She said meri nazar main koi hy, and I told her mujay iss waqt nazar main koi nhi chahea, kam karny dain.

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I told my mother the same, I also told her jab karni hoge kr lu ga. I also told a few other close people the same.
Being honest I wanted to get married before 20, then 21 and now I'm 24 and life does get lonely at time point, and you do need someone in your life who you can rely on completely, someone you can go to and tell them how fked up our day was, or maybe share some good news with them but I have worked my assoff for my career in past idk 7-8 years that it's difficult to stop now before establishing myself. I also didn't enjoy my teenage or even after that to this day and maybe that's another reason I am hesitant to get married now because I feel like I need my freedom and I want to travel and I want to meet new people, get to know them and when I'm completely sure about someone that I can spend my whole life with them, and that they are perfect for me, they inspire me then I think I would consider getting married. There's still more reasons but rn career is my priority.