Honestly- I don’t fully know the answer. My first love took a toll on me for my romantic life but then again I was in constant back to back relationships to fill that void they made when they left in the first place. But I never filled it and I just kept hurting people while not feeling a thing. Then I met my fiancé and though I feel something for him, love.. I’m not the same as when I was with the first person. I don’t share my feelings much, I’m not even fully emotionally in the relationship which is bad but I try. So yeah, maybe it did.
I feel like everyone reaches a point in their lives where they become depressed. I have and still continue to struggle with depression. Most of my friends do too. It’s become a common thing in society. But a way to better us and the people we care about is lending a hand, reach out to everyone that maybe struggling and just be there for them even if they push you away.
Be yourself. Don’t talk about your exes though. Also listen to them. Tell them something funny. Compliments are important too just don’t take it too far.
Do you believe in second chances? Say your ex boyfriend hooked up with your ex best that lived with you guys when you were together...
I do, but then again I’m not the best person to answer this since I’ve given people a million chances no matter what they do. But it depends what kind of person you are and if they are worth it. Like for instance, did you love your ex? Anyways if you forgive one of them, you have to forgive both of them.
No. I think it’s almost impossible to forget the first person that you’ve ever loved, actually. They started the process of understanding what you needed instead of wanted. They help you discover the things you both love and hate in a relationship and grow from it.
Not really, but I still hold my head up. I know my struggles but people have it worse than I do. I have to remember that. It’s why I focus on my friends or whoever needs me.
When you break up with someone do you destroy their things❓
Ironically no, I don’t. I cherish the items. I once loved them, right? I still care for them. Those gifts meant something and they serve as a reminder of good times.