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Kung kailangan ko ng i cut off ang communication ko sa someone na mahalaga sakin, kailangan ko bang magpaalam? I have a reason why i need to do that.

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For sure that special someone of yours will get hurt. Ok lang sa'yo yon? Especially kung mahalaga ka rin sa kanya (you didn't mention this). He might be able to understand your reason if you shared it with him. Unless you want to hide something because you don't have enough trust? Or you are a kinda manipulator or something? Do not confuse the communication at the very least as your way of paying respect to the relationship.
Hmmm. Depende roon sa tao, kung gaano siya kasensitive. Kasi I have low-maintenance friends. If I need to cut off myself from them for the meantime, hindi sila nagtatanong at that moment. Hinihintay nila na maging okay ako at mai-explain ko why I had to do it. Pero natutunan ko rin na hindi lahat ng tao magegets 'yong sitwasyon ko, so there are some people na sinasabihan ko beforehand. (If they are too important to me and I don't want to burn bridges with them). Sa iba, kebs kung mag-burn ng bridge. Lol. So depende 'yon sa kung paano ang nabuong mong relasyon sa mga tao at kung gaano sila ka-low o ka-high maintenance.
Likewise, may mga friends akong no need magsabi na they will cut me off for the meantime. Meron namang iba na nagsasabi. I'm very low-maintenance friend, g lang sa akin magsabi man sila o hindi because I know, I'll always be here whenever they need me.

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Syempre kailangan mo talagang magpaalam. Try to put yourself to his/her shoes. What if ikaw yung iwan nang wala paalam, sakit diba? So, yes! Kailangan mo talaga para naman hindi siya magmukhang tanga na naghihintay sa wala.

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